There's often debate about "unique" or "unusual" names. As someone who has a fairly unique name I know there are definitely pros and cons to it. I'm a Bryony. I get a range of reactions from those who know a few Bryony's and people who have never heard of it.
For me the cons were/are
-Kids in school thinking it was the female version of Brian..so got called that a lot.
- Never finding anything (teddies keyrings etc) with my name on.
- Telling someone my name over the phone and automatically spelling it straight away "It's Bryony that's B-R-Y...."
- Being on the phone telling someone my name with the response "Sorry is that your first or last name?"
- Very often having people enquire the origin- yes it's not at all offensive and in a way quite nice that people are interested but it gets a little tedious "no it's not Welsh/Irish it's actually the name of a flower."
- People from most other countries struggle saying it. I travelled a fair bit after uni and very often would introduce myself using my middle name just to avoid being called Barney, Bonnie, Bronnie, Biney, Briney and many more.
-Even countries where English is the first language are perplexed by it. In America people assumed it was Bryannie or Briannie. They thought it was a variation of Brianna.
- I studied in Australia for 6 months and had to get very used to people looking puzzled and asking me to repeat myself when first meeting.
- Knowing that it's a marmite name and a lot of people when hearing it will be thinking what a horrible name it is.
But some pros to
- Although I hated my name growing up and was so envious that my twin sister had a top 10 name, I now appreciate that I was always the only one in a class and didn't have to be known as Bryony 'first initial of surname.'
- I still find it quite exciting when meeting someone with the same name. I worked in a hotel a few years ago and one evening heard "BRYONY will you stop that!" I of course immediately turned round to see a little girl being told off by her mum. We became close pals over their 2 week holiday!
I suppose this is more a thread on the pros and cons of Bryony. But I think it's interesting to see people's takes on unusual names and their reason for choosing them. It doesn't help that I really really dislike my name. But I suppose that could happen to anyone even if it's a top 10 name! I think the most frustrating part is having to repeat it and the puzzled looks some people give.