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lucypee3 · 11/09/2016 15:51

Hi

Can't believe I'm asking a bunch of strangers but I need help choosing baby boy name. Due any day now and have a Jessica already.
Husband wants a Jenson or Joshua but I'm not keen on another j. Not sure why. Do I need to get over my fear of 2 J's?
I think I like Ben or Zak.
I'd like something a bit unusual but fear it being Poncey or chavvy!!!
Thoughts?

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Oysterbabe · 11/09/2016 15:53

I think Jenson and Joshua are too simular to Jessica personally.

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MidnightVelvettheSixth · 11/09/2016 15:53

No need to go for another J name, Joshua is fairly classic but Jenson will date.

Max
Theo
Edward

I like Zak, there's one at my DCs primary

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Iliveinalighthousewiththeghost · 11/09/2016 16:45

I love Ben. It's safe gentle yet at the sametime strong and not overly common.
Jessica and Ben certainly has a ring to it
I don't like Joshua and Jensen is awful.
Not fussed on Zak either, but. It's all about opinions. I guess.

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HettyB · 11/09/2016 16:59

So, something unusual but not too [the word MNers hate] or poncey, and goes with Jessica.

Jessica and....

Barnaby
Edwin
Elliott
Guy
Gregory
Isaac
Kit
Otis
Patrick
Robin
Rannulph
Ralph/Rafe
Simeon
Saul
Winston
Zachary/Zachariah

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Soubriquet · 11/09/2016 17:01

What name do you worry about being poncy?

Nothing wrong with two J's

Me and my sister are two M's with a dad who is an M

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lucypee3 · 11/09/2016 17:05

The biggest obstacle is my husband. I like lots of names, including suggestions in here but he likes nothing!

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Sugarpiehoneyeye · 11/09/2016 17:06

Jessica and Joseph (Joe).
Jessica and Benedict (Ben).
Jessica and Samuel (Sam).
Jessica and Daniel (Dan).
Jessica and Thomas (Tom).

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BagelGoesWalking · 11/09/2016 17:10

Don't go for another J! It's awful and you will end up calling one child by the others name.

My name begins with a C and my daughter's with a K. My DH and friends often call us by the others name! It's obviously not the end of the world and they correct themselves, but we never realised it would be an issue. I would imagine this would happen even more with siblings.

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lucypee3 · 11/09/2016 17:37

I really don't want another j. I love Daniel but husband says no.

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Dogolphin · 11/09/2016 17:39

Jessica and Isaac
Jessica and James
Jessica and Xander

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Sugarpiehoneyeye · 11/09/2016 17:57

What kind of name does husband like OP ?

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Caldini22 · 11/09/2016 18:03

Jessica and William
Jessica and Thomas

I do like Ben too. I think two Js would be ok, would prefer James.

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JazzAnnNonMouse · 11/09/2016 18:44

I think Jessica is quite a 'normal' name so you couldn't have somethung like forest afterwards!

I would go for something like:
Daniel
Samuel
Joshua
Luke
Matthew
Felix
Aaron
Thomas
James
Patrick
Jonathan

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lucypee3 · 11/09/2016 19:47

He doesn't overly like anything. It will give us something to chat about during the labour Confused

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HettyB · 11/09/2016 20:48

If all else fails, you've got six weeks after the birth to agree on something!

Or you can adopt the approach I did, mention the name you love at every possible opportunity until he comes around to the idea!

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lucypee3 · 08/10/2016 01:31

We went with Benjamin!!!

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scrivette · 08/10/2016 02:07

Ahh congratulations OP!

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ShmooBooMoo · 08/10/2016 03:34

I think Michael is due a comeback. Nathan is nice too.

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katemess12 · 08/10/2016 06:18

I love Benjamin. Good choice, OP.

Smile

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Sugarpiehoneyeye · 08/10/2016 07:28

Congratulations Lucy, what a lovely choice you made.💐

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NickNacks · 08/10/2016 07:31

I love it when people update with heir choices!

Congratulations x

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MotherDuckSaid · 08/10/2016 08:35

What about Nathaniel? Perhaps OH will like tht? Close to Daniel, and i prefer the nn thaniel which sounds just like Daniel 😁

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MotherDuckSaid · 08/10/2016 08:36

Ahh love Benjamin 😊

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lucypee3 · 15/10/2016 21:50

Thank you all xxx

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livinglooney8 · 15/10/2016 21:58

Ben is nice but dull. I second Nathaniel which has a bit more excitement.

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