tobias/Sebastian as a bro to finlay

[Natjones77]

Help
I am due to register my three weeks old son tomorrow and I still have not decided on a name. I have a three year old called finlay but as yet nothing concrete on baby two.
The shortlist is down to Tobias (toby), Sebastian and Julien.
Some friends think that sebastian is a bit of a mouthfull and maybe too posh!.Please has anyone got a preference as time is ticking whilst I am faffing about! !

[DeffoJeffo]

I love Toby/Tobias - just lovely. Would be top of my list for a boy if it wasn't for our surname which makes it faintly ridiculous!

[reuset]

Tobias is good. So is Sebastian (it's far more ordinary and mainstream now) and Julien

[StevieJo]

My vote is for Sebastian but Tobias is a very nice name as well

[GladysTheGolem]

Tobias is the nevernude who just blue himself on Arrested Development to me (American show, it's on Netflix).

Love Sebastian!

[Sophronia]

I prefer Sebastian as I'm not keen on Toby. I prefer Julian spelled this way.

[SmugairleRoin]

Sebastian is too popular imo (maybe that doesn't bother you though).
Tobias....eh....it's alright but Toby has always been a bit of a dog name to me.

I really like Julian, second choice probably Tobias.

[SmugairleRoin]

Although tbh op all of those are good names!

[RedToothBrush]

Sebastian is not posh. Its 38th in the 2014 ranking with just under 2000 babies given the name! I think Tobias is as posh, if not more so anyway.

Seb is a F1 driver.

Toby is a jug.

I know which one is cooler!

[Iliveinalighthousewiththeghost]

Sebastian.

[Lunastarfish]

Tough one - I really like both names. I'd personally go for Toby however Sebastian will probably be shortened to Seb. Do you like that? Seb and Fin

[Thoughtfulduck]

Great choices op! I like them all! Not helpful I know.

If I was forced to pick I think it would be Toby, Sebastian, Julien. I prefer Julien as a middle name. Congratulations!