Thank you to everyone who replied, yes, even those who voted for 3!
I'm really glad I started this thread. It has certainly confirmed that we all have very differing opinions on names and what is important (do initials matter? Brand names? Is Aubrey unisex?! Are alliterative names a big no and thus did I marry the wrong man!? ). As one PP said, it would be really boring if we all liked the same names.
I think the best advice was to go for the one we love, and we will. I'm not going to come back to say what we choose in the end (still in negotiation) as I don't want negative comments after we've picked IYSWIM.
Flowers? On a baby name thread? Must be the hormones <runs>