It's Ezmee not ezmay. Ezmay is a new thing. It's not a french name. It's a female short form of Edmund or Edward and it was first used in scotland. in my opinion Esmé is the version that's cringe. Although at least if there's an accent on it you know how you're expected to pronounce it. so, the one that would annoy me the most would be Esme and the parents getting annoying that you pronounce it Ezmee.