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Names are very seldom read out in full - I'd pick a first name that you really like as that is what you will be using everyday - by the time your baby is a few months old, nobody will be aware what her middle name is until she is applying for passports etc.
If you like Isla then go for it, but given there is an Island called Harris, that might be a bit odd. (Isl a Harris - Isle of Harris!)