Thank you ladies for talking me through Adam and Eve muddle a few days ago. But here is boy's name dilemma.
We always said if we had another DS his first name would be after DH's grandpa. It's a nice name, with good nn and goes well with DS1's name. Middle names are sorted, really want this as a first name.
Now 9 weeks pg with DC2.
Earlier this year friend had a baby boy and called him the name. He died when he was 3 weeks old. Ordinarily I would have thought "No one owns a name, they'll just have to be one of several". This lady is not a close friend, but is a friend, lives nearby, in a small village and her DD is same age as DS1, so we will always see her at school, parties, playground, duck pond etc.
If DC2 turns out to be a boy can we still use this name - we'll find out sex at 20 weeks anyway. Should I ask her if she minds/tell her in advance and warn her? It's not an unusual name and she is likely to come across others in time. And it is a family name, it's not like we are picking it at random because we like it.
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BikeRunSki · 29/03/2011 17:26
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