Here's the background...I am pregnant at 40 with my third baby. The other two pregnancies were plain sailing all the way, and two beautiful girls, no issues other than difficulties in getting pregnant in the first place. I was subsequently told by my doctor that I would not be able to get pregnant with another child and had made my peace with that. So I was beyond surprised to find myself 8 weeks pregnant this January... Unlike the other two pregnancies my husband and I felt very mixed emotions at first about this one... We had mentally moved on from the idea of a bigger family and were not thrilled at first. However, after a couple of weeks of living with the news we were happy and excited about this unexpected gift of a third baby. The 12 week scan was lovely and normal, good NT. I went ahead with the blood tests for the triple test and didn't think anything of it. It went down hill from there.... The results were mislaid between the lab and the midwife and when she re requested them to be sent after me pressuring her to get them (took a whole month) it turns out that the hormone levels were extremely low and that an urgent scan was recommended as they suspected a miscarriage or Edwards/ Patau's. I had the scan last Saturday and the doctor was pretty reassuring. Apparently no visible problems other than the fact that the baby is very small for term and they spotted one cyst. I felt reassured but booked for the Harmony blood test just to be sure. At my appointment today they took one look at the bloods and the scan and told me that I should have the amnio straight away as results would come in 48 hours, rather than wait for the blood test which takes 10 days. She said she was very concerned about the combination of my age/'retarded growth ' / the cyst and the bloods. She wouldn't give me a statistical chance for either syndrome as I live in France and apparently they don't give out the odds other than for Down's Syndrome (which is v low risk due to good NT and low hormone result) but her reaction made me feel they can't be good...The next thing I knew I was signing consent forms and lying on the couch waiting for the needle. Now I am at home going out of my mind with worry, googling and thinking the worst. I feel irrationally that somehow this is my fault and my punishment for not 'wanting' this baby initially...
Has anyone experienced anything similar and did it turn out ok? The next two days of waiting feel like torture....
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V bad odds for Edwards and Patau's syndrome... Scared.
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bayswatersophie · 21/03/2016 14:27
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