Hi
I'm 5 weeks today. My bf and I have been together just over a year and been using NFP for 4 months after having IUS removed, only had amennorhoea, so wasn't best NFP!
I'm 29, he's 38. We'd both said we'd like children 'someday'. I'm in a professional training post and he looks after a small business with on site accommodation where we both live (this is long-term temporary). I have a house I'm trying to sell, so we COULD find a suitable place together when it's sold. The dream eco-offgrid-sustainable dwelling...
Really, I'm excited about the idea of a baby, although disruptive to everything we know and do (both outdoor lifestyle fanatics), becoming a parent seems like the ultimate adventure.
But, should we have a TOP, and plan our future together, plan for a child when housing, careers, ?marriage, fitness goals and aspirations have been achieved? Would waiting another year be wiser?
What would you do, what did you do?
Wren
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Wren84 · 05/01/2014 20:32
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