I have name changed for obvious reasons as some know me on here in RL
I have found out this week that the MAP that I took after a split in the condom has not worked. I am now pregnant with number 4. My immediate reaction is I can't do it. My DH is the same thinking and wants a abortion too. Our 3 children are close in age all 5 or under. We are not wealthy and can't afford luxuries but don't have a bad life. We get by.
I suffered with extreme pnd after 2 of my children and we are finally back enjoying life.
I am booked in at BPAS next friday but the more time goes the more I am doubting myself and thinking I may regret it.
I also need to mention that my DH is on the list for his vasectomy so we have had the big talk and decided no more. However now I am I feel bad.
I am terrified of going through the procedure itself let alone having any pangs of guilt.
Having another means all new baby bits as they are now given away or sold on. Bigger house possible as our 3rd bedroom is small.
I don't want to get ill again, its taken alot of work to get where I am now to be a proper mother and wife.
I am so confused, this is a decision I never wanted to make. I really think that abortion is the most sensible option but I am terrified.
Any similar experiences? I am sure and hope there has been?
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Advice much needed. Very unplanned number 4
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regnamechange · 11/03/2011 18:59
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