I have depression, again. I've been through this many times before, with and without medication but it is so bad that this time I am name changing because I feel that I would be sectioned if anyone knew. I can't share in real life because friends have enough to deal with and let's face it, they get bored of having misery conversations when they have their own problems. I feel utterly desperate. I am reluctant to level with the doctor because I feel that I don't deserve my children as it is and am so afraid of them being taken away. I am horrible enough to my husband as it is. I can't burden him with even more - what can anyone do anyway? This is entirely down to me getting up and getting out and exercising and eating well and allowing myself to feel connected. I know what works. This time I cannot even find that spark.
In a fair assessment, I have to convict myself of laziness, lack of motivation, nastiness, lack of empathy and blaming other unreasonably. I have no will to live. I've eaten myself into a blob because I just don't care any more - it is almost punishment. I can't (or, to be blunt, won't allow myself to) connect with anyone and it is so damn stupid, because it is so irrational. I have no excuse for this, it's self-involved and even sociopathic. I'm not looking for sympathy. I'm just so fed up with myself.
I've tried CBT but it doesn't address the complete failure of motivation. I'm in counselling now, but she cancelled this week's appointment. Besides I'm finding that really hard work - I'm seeing how ridiculous my feelings are, and that probably it is just all about me not being any good at connecting. I embarrass myself. I knew addressing the underlying issues (trivial though they are) would get harder before it got better, but at what point do you say that your kids deserve more and just present yourself at a hospital and hope someone will solve the problem for you. Would they just turn me away anyway and send in social services?
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At what point do you give up?
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HidingI · 22/10/2015 20:48
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