Sorry for posting her as it isn't really PND related but more 'baby blues' - I hope!
I had an ELCS a week ago in which I delivered DD1 at 36 weeks. She was born healthy. I was delivered early due to problems with the pregnancy. I had the same problems in my first pregnancy with DS1 but these were only picked up by chance at a 'routine' san at 36 weeks to check the position of the placenta. After my ELCS, the surgeon came in to inform me that they had spotted a 'problem' with my uterus. It was a lot thinner than it should be and they said another pregnancy would mean a definite ELCS at about 34-36 weeks.
Now DH and I had decided that 2 children was enough and DD1 was always going to be our last child. But on hearing the surgeon's news about the health, or lack of, of my uterus, I have found myself crying about it. It is as though the choice has been ripped away from me. The surgeon has never said we can't have anymore childen but DH and I did discuss what he said and decided that another pregnancy would be too risky (heightened risk of uterine rupture - had one with DS1) and we would be anxious and terrified during the whole thing!
I am struggling to accept that DD1 is our last child. I feel like a huge part of my life has now ended and I would never experience it again. I feel quite distraught about it at times (I will say that mundane things are making me cry too).
I am putting this down to 'baby blues' but need to know how to 'snap myself out' of feeling so 'bereaved'!
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maskingtherealme · 06/03/2015 22:05
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