I'm currently 21 weeks and really struggling, I don't know if it's just pregnancy/miscarriage hormones or whether it's more. I hope this won't offend anyone if I say the wrong thing, would like to hear from other people and what helped them.
So I had a miscarriage in August and the due date is approaching and I'm sure that isn't helping, I thought I was coping but it seems to have stepped up now we are a month to the due date.
As I said I'm also 21 weeks pregnant ( fell straight away) and annoyed with the hospital but that's a whole other thread.
I'm keeping it together at work, although finding it stressful and really only doing the minimum. I don't think I'm busier than before just not holding it together in the same way.
However what has me worried (and no doubt DH) is my overwhelming sense of sadness and that everything is outside my control. Last night I went up stairs to get my book and ended up in floods of tears and couldn't stop but couldn't really explain why I was crying. This happened at the weekend as well. Feels like back to the immediate aftermath of the miscarriage and that uncontrollable crying.
It's my birthday tomorrow and I just opened my card from my mum to burst into tears at the stupid poem... And now crying writing this....
Has anyone felt the same? Is this normal pregnancy or something more? And what can I do to feel back to my normal self? The hospital offered counselling at the time of the miscarriage and I wondered if I should have followed this up, has anyone tried it, did it help?
Sorry for the long post!
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firsttimekat · 18/02/2014 19:37
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