Had my baby a week ago, and finding myself very tearful each day and simple things can set me off.
I have 5 dc including my baby between the ages of 3-10.
My 5yo has behavioural problems and problems learning and communicating. Her behaviour has got considerably worse since baby was here and i'm starting to get anxious upon doing simple tasks such as appointments and getting the children to school.
Luckily my dh works nights so he can be there for me if needed but i can't see how its fair to wake him up every school run but i need him to help me as my 5yo is hard to get from A-B if things don't go well ie her tantruming on floor whilst i have baby in pram along with a 3yo in tow.
I feel in despair and that if i keep relying on my dh so much our relationship will suffer. My older children are also becoming upset as my time is completely taken.
Never thought it would be this hard, i never remember feeling like this when in had dc4. I just feel i cannot cope on my own and i'm anxious even before leaving the house about probable problems. My dh had to go straight back to work 3 days after baby was born, just feel thrown in at the deep end
I just want to spend time at home bonding with baby but appointments with mw and 5yo dc speech app which are far away (i dont drive) and the school run are just too much so early on.
I just want to rest but feel i'm not able too, feel so blue and helpless and struggling to see how i can cope with 5 children and do it alone without constantly having to ask of dhs help.
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pumpkinsweetie · 14/01/2014 11:09
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