I have already posted the whole looooong story about the experience I had going through the d&c, and now after persistently requesting counselling from both my family doctor and obstetrician I am left with zero options. They won't offer me any counselling options and insist I will be fine. I am starting to question whether I should be feeling depressed or not.
I have an appointment with a gynecologist on the 11th(I'd had this appointment booked already in August when I found out I was pregnant) and she's supposed to be doing a follow up internal ultrasound and discussing birth control with me. I have an intolerance to progesterone substitutes/artificial progesterone which is the reason I became pregnant on birth control in the first place, and when I went to the doctor to see if all the tissue I was passing was normal or not, I asked about estrogen based oral contraceptive. He advised me that if I took estrogen based birth control, that my depression would get worse.
I need the security of knowing I chose the right birth control and want to know what questions I should be asking regarding effectiveness and factors that may interfere with it. I've been on birth control since the age of fourteen, and have conceived twice while using it. Unfortunately, one ended in a miscarriage, and the other horrific and unjust. I am so ashamed at the decision I went with and never wish this experience upon anyone. I just want this to disappear from my mind and its become harder knowing if I can't find the right contraceptive then the only option for my fiancee is against everything I ever stood for.
Anyone else have problems with hormonal birth control and its effectiveness?
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waiting for follow up after d&c, terribly anxious and depressed
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rachelpantera · 04/11/2013 02:32
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