Sorry I don't remember - by pinpointing specific things I remember I would say 12-18 months, and sadly she is now ex-SIL so not in a position to ask. I think she may not have started counselling until after the notes came (which I know was the week of my nephews first birthday)
I haven't but my SIL has. Following my nephews birth, she had a panic atack when the notes of her delivery arrived at her home, and also when she received the report which was a bit better than you received...but not much.
She kept going the coiunselling (don't know if it was CBT) and had another baby five years after No.1
i had a very traumatic birth which could of been avoided (or at least lessened with better staff). i have been in intensive CBT since my son was 16 weeks old he is now almost 11 months. i was "getting there" and i made a complaint to the hospital, however yesterday i got the report back and apart from the fact it has made me out to be a bare faced liar it has put me right back to square one in regards to my mental health. i was wondering if there were any mothers out there who are in a simmilar position to myself, and that have made a complaint and alligations to the hospital? thanks very much x