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A thread for conception friendships to be rekindled

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BelissimaLol Tue 27-Nov-12 19:44:27

Got my bfp yesterday after mc in July. Am in complete shock and am hoping some of my old friends will come and hold my hand!
Nic, pear, frustrated.... Anyone else? I'm lol by the way. Slight name change!

FrustratedSycamoreSnowflake Fri 14-Dec-12 19:20:07

I think it's between dtd, the egg being fertilised, and the egg implanting. (I think implantation can take 3-7 days, so it's like the difference between getting a bfp on 10dpo or 14dpo)
No idea as to the sex.

BelissimaLol Fri 14-Dec-12 18:06:32

So could it be that I had smiley on sat and ovd on wed only?!! That's quite a few days. Does it mean I'm having a girl? grin
How u frust???

FrustratedSycamoreSnowflake Fri 14-Dec-12 15:48:43

Yay! Nice one lol grin yes is normal for dates to change slightly depending on completion of implantation. (Mine jumped forwards 3 days, but they can go either way)

BelissimaLol Fri 14-Dec-12 13:10:05

We have a tiny baby and a heartbeat! I cried a little tear.
Measured 3 days behind what I thought. Is that normal?

MrsBri Tue 11-Dec-12 13:23:24

No, but we aren't asking.

Didn't have the NT test either.

FrustratedSycamoreSnowflake Tue 11-Dec-12 12:31:53

They don't like to do gender before the 20wk scan

BelissimaLol Tue 11-Dec-12 11:40:02

Yay that's amazing news! Do they give you any indication of the sex at that stage? Do you want to find out?

FrustratedSycamoreSnowflake Tue 11-Dec-12 11:12:53

Yay mrs

MrsBri Tue 11-Dec-12 11:00:27

Scan was lovely...got a little tearful!

Measuring 12+5 at 12+2, so not bad. New EDD of 20th June.

So relieved :-) xx

BelissimaLol Tue 11-Dec-12 07:25:38

Hope u right frust.
Nic good luck today. Let us know how u get on x

FrustratedSycamoreSnowflake Mon 10-Dec-12 20:52:12

Pre-scan jitters lol, this one is a sticky bean.

BelissimaLol Sun 09-Dec-12 14:49:08

Has work Xmas do last night and had to fully describe the symptoms of my fake kidney infection! Bearing in mind they all know about my mc I reckon they clocked on. But hey.
5 days until scan. Last time I started bleeding around now. I'm so scared.

CatchingMockingbirds Sat 08-Dec-12 15:32:11

Wooo that's great belissima smile

I'm currently enjoying a very sober birthday at the moment, my friends are bringing me round some glittery J20 for me to enjoy instead tonight grin

FrustratedSycamoreSnowflake Sat 08-Dec-12 12:30:33

Hi lol I'm good. Don't you worry about me. My eye sight has gone dodgy, so coming on my phone makes me feel sick. (Perfectly normal for me in pregnancy, they stop focusing, which makes me feel dizzy and sick to read,)

BelissimaLol Sat 08-Dec-12 07:37:19

I was wondering where you were frust! Was getting worried... How have you been?
Had to pee three times during the night and now have to go to work. Hmpf.

MrsBri Fri 07-Dec-12 21:46:09

9am...nice and early, thank god!

FrustratedSycamoreSnowflake Fri 07-Dec-12 21:42:41

Exciting lol I bet you're getting impatient.

BelissimaLol Fri 07-Dec-12 18:37:47

How exciting! Midwife app on 21st dec and scan on 22bd jan! Getting a little bit excited.
Nic what time is your scan on tue??

CatchingMockingbirds Wed 05-Dec-12 18:55:12

Before 12wks only dp's uncle knew as he's s doctor and he thought my doctors were incompetent for not giving me an MRI so we had to tell him they couldn't because I was pg.

MrsBri Wed 05-Dec-12 17:58:06

Women clock on really easily too! Not much you can do, sadly :-/

BelissimaLol Wed 05-Dec-12 16:36:26

Two girls in my branch have already clocked on. I've only got myself to blame really with a reputation for loving the booze and am not drinking at 3 work Xmas parties! There is only so much antibiotics one can be prescribed!

peardrop2 Wed 05-Dec-12 08:18:00

Lol before the 12 week mark only my mother new and then at 10 weeks my parents in law and one of my sisters knew. Everyone else found out between week 12-16. As of yesterday everyone close to us knows!

MrsBri Tue 04-Dec-12 20:09:03

Badly! Tight shows it but baggy accentuates what I'm hiding! :-/

BelissimaLol Tue 04-Dec-12 20:06:56

How are you hiding bump at work?! I wear a uniform and it will be hard! Can't start on the maternity line until its all out.

MrsBri Tue 04-Dec-12 19:41:20

I've told a fair few people, actually...easily into double figures. Just have to hope it remains ok, I suppose.

Scan a week today, so at least I'll know. My bump is planning to take over the world and keeps growing, so I'm assuming the baby is still growing!

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