To think that you shouldn't dump someone IN BED!

(81 Posts)
gail734 Thu 10-Oct-13 19:55:10

Years ago, I had a boyfriend who did this! I'd been going out with him for 18 months and although I'd spent the whole of the evening in question with him, he didn't chuck me until we got into bed together. Looking back, I think he was too cowardly to do it face to face, but once the lights were out he found that he could do it. I didn't live with him, but I'd driven there and then had several drinks, so I still stayed the night (in the spare room). No idea why I didn't get a taxi - I was kind of mortified by shock tbh. I also have a friend who was once dumped at the top of a mountain! She and her now ex-boyfriend then hiked back to her car and she still gave him a lift home. We thought it would have been so funny if she'd left him in the wilderness, but on reflection maybe maintaining her dignity was good. What's the shittiest way in which you've been dumped?

dizzy101 Thu 10-Oct-13 20:07:48

16 and pregnant to my 23year old then boyfriend.phoned me and told me he wasn't ready to be a dad(5months gone)and didn't want fuck all to-do with me or baby.21years on he still never met his son.could have done it in person!

Lj8893 Thu 10-Oct-13 20:10:35

Not quite in the same league as those, but when I was with my first boyfriend (I was about 15) he had spent all evening at mine like normal (he lived on the same road) , and then had a big conversation about how amazing it would be to have a really close female friend who lived nearby.

I didn't click until he left that he meant he just wanted to be my friend. sad

We are still friends now!

PenguinDancer Thu 10-Oct-13 20:16:14

He was moving, kissed me at the airport, said he would call when he landed and never did.

Told his mate (and mine) not to give me his number. We were only 17/18.

Funny now grin

AngelsLieToKeepControl Thu 10-Oct-13 20:18:31

I was 18 and pregnant and my delightful 22 year old boyfriend sent his overbearing Mother round to finish with me and talk me into having a termination, instead she ended up offering me £2000 to give her my baby, she had a document that she had printed out and a cheque with her.

I also had a relationship end in bed when my boyfriend informed me that his best friend gave him a blow job a couple of nights before, but it was OK because 'lads always piss about like that when they are drunk' confused

gail734 Thu 10-Oct-13 20:19:08

God, dizzy, that's awful!
I've also remembered a cousin who had moved in with her boyfriend in London. It was his idea that she moved in. One Friday night, after a night out, he sat her down and explained that it just wasn't working out for him and that she would have to move out. But she didn't have to go immediately, he charitably explained: she could stay until the next day! Luckily a nearby relative was able to take her in!

Lazysuzanne Thu 10-Oct-13 20:22:33

'she ended up offering me £2000 to give her my baby, she had a document that she had printed out and a cheque with her. '

thats gotta be illegal
you could bribe her
oh wait, that'd also be illegal grin

Kayakinggirl86 Thu 10-Oct-13 20:28:32

No where near in the same league as the other university boy friend (met in freshers week) sent me a text 6min before my final exam saying we needed to slow down or take a break. Apparently I was not meant to get the message till after my exam- cause that make dumping someone you have been with for over 4 years so much better :s

AngelsLieToKeepControl Thu 10-Oct-13 20:29:03

I should have taken the cheque from her actually. The document she had with her was just typed up on her computer and printed out. I was too shocked to say much really.

Her opening line was 'My son has asked me to come and end things and ask you to have an abortion, but I'm going to give you another option' like me giving birth and keeping my child myself was never on the cards because they said so, bunch of weirdos grin

DownstairsMixUp Thu 10-Oct-13 20:33:16

That's an awful way to dump someone! At least you were shot of the coward! My current DP was always heartless for dumping, I was his first "serious" partner (all the rest max a year) and he dumped one girl by phone call and hung up when she cried and another by text! I told him he was a heartless pig! grin

FortyDoorsToNowhere Thu 10-Oct-13 20:33:33

My ex introduced me to his new boyfriend explaining that he was gay and the relationship was over. All forgiven when he introduced me to his cousin ( the cousin is now my DH)

dizzy101 Thu 10-Oct-13 20:36:31

Gail was awful but he missed out on a great son. Angel I would have took money and ran his mother told me "get rid of it you northern scrubber".

AngelsLieToKeepControl Thu 10-Oct-13 20:41:35

I know someone (many years ago now) who was dumped by a guy who shoved an envelope through her door with a note saying 'sorry' and a pair of blue baby booties in it then he completely disappeared never to be seen again.

iklboo Thu 10-Oct-13 20:46:15

A note on the kitchen counter.

kiriwawa Thu 10-Oct-13 20:47:40

I've been dumped 3 times in bed after we've had sex. Just lovely hmm

I'm never quite sure if that means I'm rubbish in bed and tipped them over the edge or they thought that was the best bit of the relationship and so wanted to do it one last time grin

gail734 Thu 10-Oct-13 20:50:53

Forty - I've always wondered if maybe being dumped for a member of the opposite sex would somehow be easier. Dizzy - did they really never show any interest at all? Has your son asked about his biological father?

Faith48 Thu 10-Oct-13 20:54:38

I drove 50 miles to my then boyfriend 3 months pregnant with an overnight bag packed, within 10 minutes of arriving I was dumped and driving home.

Got back together, lasted a year before getting out of the shower 5 weeks pregnant to him standing in the hall with a bag packed telling me that he would be back for the rest tomorrow.

I have 2 beautiful children out of it but you would I thought that I would have learnt.

Faith48 Thu 10-Oct-13 20:54:51

I drove 50 miles to my then boyfriend 3 months pregnant with an overnight bag packed, within 10 minutes of arriving I was dumped and driving home.

Got back together, lasted 2 years before getting out of the shower 5 weeks pregnant to him standing in the hall with a bag packed telling me that he would be back for the rest tomorrow.

I have 2 beautiful children out of it but you would I thought that I would have learnt.

BonaDea Thu 10-Oct-13 20:56:25

Oh god. Went on a date with a guy I'd been seeing for a few months. He spent quite a lot of it talking about future plans including that he'd love to take me to Paris.

We'd been out in his city but were staying at my place in my city so got on the train. About 45 mins into the 1hr journey he dumped me. We were on the last train and so he had no way back. My 34 year old self would have told him tough luck and he could shell out for a cab or a hotel but my naive 24 year old self asked him back to my one bed place where we shared a bed. I was so miserable.

I rang in sick the next day I was so sad and mortified.

WilsonFrickett Thu 10-Oct-13 21:00:14

Not in the same league as many of these but I was once dumped at a party in front of every single person in my college year group for 'being too slutty'. I've bee dumped by text and letter. But my best ever was my first 'love' who dumped me with the immortal words 'my friends think I should be going out with someone good looking. I mean, obviously I think you're alright looking, but no-one else can see it, really.'


wonderingsoul Thu 10-Oct-13 21:05:18

wow these are crazy.

my ex husband, whikst in another country got his sister to message me on myspace that I was getting a divorce, no reason.

ex after exhusband took me and my kids on a lovely day out then when we got back to minetold me he loved me than dumped me... then had the gall to post a nice smiley picture of us from our day out on facebook.

Twooter Thu 10-Oct-13 21:05:37

I was dumped by a letter at university. The thing that annoyed me most was that he'd sent it by second class.

dizzy101 Thu 10-Oct-13 21:05:43

Gail his father escaped pay any support and only contacted him 2years ago on fb to tellin him he has 4other siblings with 3 woman. My son tell him will see him with a baseball bat in his hand.its very hurtful for him though when he see photos on fb of his Dad and all kids, but no mention of him. Excuse spelling it's new phone and hard to use

dizzy101 Thu 10-Oct-13 21:09:46

Gail his father escaped pay any support and only contacted him 2years ago on fb to tellin him he has 4other siblings with 3 woman. My son tell him will see him with a baseball bat in his hand.its very hurtful for him though when he see photos on fb of his Dad and all kids, but no mention of him. Excuse spelling it's new phone and hard to use

FreeWee Thu 10-Oct-13 21:23:47

Nowhere near as bad as some of these. Boy are men shits sometimes!

One bloke emigrated to New Zealand without telling me. He said he was going travelling for a few months but when he got there never replied to any of my emails and I later found out from a mutual friend he'd applied for citizenship! I saw him at said mutual friend's wedding, well my DH saw him first with the words "Who is that?" I took one look and burst out laughing. He'd turned into a new age hippy! He had dreadlocks and was dressed in a kaftan and sandals at a wedding.

Other chap got me to move to the north from the south and then never returned a single call or email from the day I moved.

Other boyfriend when I was at uni got me to drive 100s of miles to meet his family on his birthday going out for a big meal. I had to stay in the spare room at his family's house then he tried to make me leave first thing in the morning so he could meet his friends without me. Things should have clicked then but I invited him down to meet my family and booked tickets for a concert. He phoned me on the day to dump me leaving me with a family meal and concert tickets to 'enjoy'. Fortunately my best mate was with me when he called and took me to the pub to commiserate. She also joined me at the family meal and concert. That's what best mates are for grin

Oh I also got dumped by text after another boyfriend introduced me to all his friends on a big night out. They all said how much they liked me and hoped I'd come out with them again (all worked together and I was the new girl). Except one girl who'd asked me earlier in the evening if I had a boyfriend. I said "yes I'm seeing Bloke". She said "Oh yeah we've all snogged Bloke" hmm Maybe, but he'd been seeing me since I'd started working there a few weeks previously. So he dumps me by text and I find out from his friends (who it turns out liked me more than him) that he's stated seeing 'All snogged him' girl. Via mutual friends Facebook now tells me they're married! I'm happy for them but he shouldn't have been such a dick about it. It was hardly romance of the year but he and she ignored me if we saw each other in the corridors which made things unnecessarily awkward.

Hmm that's quite a history of dicks I've been out with! Fortunately not as bad as the examples above but clearly I'm a terrible judge of character!

Sinful1 Thu 10-Oct-13 21:58:01

Not sure if this counts as I was the one who was trying to do the dumping in the first place, nothing dickish just found that didn't feel the same anymore so I went round we sat down and had a talk she seemed fine a bit teary but said she understood that sometimes people grow apart.

She got up and went off to the kitchen without saying anything so I waited a moment then followed to see if she was ok, cue me walking through the kitchen door to see her stood there looking angry as hell, next thing I know she comes flying at me with something in her hand managed to push her off and leg it outside before realising what she'd had was a Stanly knife I now have a huge scar running right from me shoulder to the opposite hip.

Never went to the police/hospital so it never got stiched like it needed so the scar is huge and lumped out.
It's always a fun explanation when I take my shirt off and look like I lost a sword

cashmiriana Thu 10-Oct-13 22:06:45

My lovely lovely friend had a boyfriend who was working overseas. She was at university, and saved up to spend the summer with him. He dumped her 48 hours after she arrived.

He's quite a prominent person these days. Every time I see him on tv I give him the evil eye for what he did to her.

I've never been dumped badly myself, but I have dumped someone on Valentine's Day before, and another on his birthday... I have terrible timing blushblush

Worst dumping ever was when my ex didn't come with me to a family funeral as he found funerals too traumatic. I arrived back home the next day to find him not there. He called to dump me from the bed of the woman he'd gone to shag while I'd been away. I could hear her in the background. He was a cunty fucker.

SweetSeraphim Thu 10-Oct-13 22:35:00

Cunty fucker grin

bdbfan Thu 10-Oct-13 22:36:30

Not as bad as some of these but when I was 17 I got dumped by fax. Which my parents saw first and wordlessly handed the fax to me

bdbfan Thu 10-Oct-13 22:36:33

Not as bad as some of these but when I was 17 I got dumped by fax. Which my parents saw first and wordlessly handed the fax to me

Chocolatehunter Thu 10-Oct-13 22:44:13

Not my story but I went to uni with a bloke who dumped his girlfriend (my friend) at her hospital bedside after she'd just had an emergency operation.

AnyFucker Thu 10-Oct-13 22:44:54

I got dumped in Asda carpark once. That was a bit shit.

Sinful1 Fri 11-Oct-13 09:12:02

Least you were close to cheap booze and ice cream :p

LadyBigtoes Fri 11-Oct-13 09:19:53

I know someone whose boyfriend proposed to her in bed and she was most annoyed! She wanted to marry him but she was a catholic and she said it just didn't seem right grin

Latara Fri 11-Oct-13 09:28:26

Sinful1 being stabbed sounds pretty bad!

For me it's mainly been when the guy has not bothered to contact me again; only one lad did it nicely over the phone... at least I wasn't in love properly with any of them!

kotinka Fri 11-Oct-13 09:37:11

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Mrsb999 Fri 11-Oct-13 09:47:04

My ex dumped me when we on our first holiday abroad together, About 3 days into a 2 week stay! All because O wouldn't walk up a hill with him....he then left me crying in bed because he was hungry and went to the hotel restaurant. Looking back now I can see the funny side but at the time not so much!

On a camping holiday , 3 days in to a 7 day stay .
The rest of the holiday was rather awkward in the 2 man tent

springthorn Fri 11-Oct-13 10:40:49

Ex dumped me at his brother's wedding when I was 3 months pregnant, because he "wasn't ready to be a dad". We had lived together for over 4 years, were engaged, in our thirties and when I first found out I was pregnant he told everyone how overjoyed he was (??!) Have since found out he prefers men.

10 years prior to this a DP of 3 years went on holiday to Mexico...and didn't come back! He didn't even think to tell me he'd stayed out there - found out through his friend several months later! He's since come back to the UK and decided that he prefers men too!!!

For my 28th birthday, this guy I'd met internet dating decided to take me on a surprise break to a 5* hotel in the Lake District - it was only our second date, talk about full on! The four days we were away were painful - whereas he was chatty online, in real life he barely spoke! On the final day I told him that it just wasn't working and he cried all the way home in the car. Trust our luck we got stuck in a traffic jam on the M6 and our journey took over 8 hours!!

springthorn Fri 11-Oct-13 10:43:04

Oh yeah, I also got dumped once for not eating broccoli one guy had cooked for me!

kotinka Fri 11-Oct-13 12:03:16

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springthorn Fri 11-Oct-13 12:20:03

Yeah, he actually cried because I wouldn't eat it - I didn't appreciate him, apparently!

filimou Fri 11-Oct-13 12:29:15

Got dumped by text, which isnt as awful as anyone above, but it was on Christmas morning. And I didn't even get a present.

JustThisOnceOrTwiceOrThrice Fri 11-Oct-13 12:54:44

Sinful1 shock

MimiSam Fri 11-Oct-13 13:18:07

Dumped by boyfriend on holiday on the Isle of Skye and, as we were in my car, I then drove hom all theway back to bloody Devon! Literally one of the longest journies possible in the UK and we sat in silence the whole way, with me crying..why I didn't just chuck him out of the car, I'll never know.

MonstrousPippin Fri 11-Oct-13 13:22:26

My room mate at uni spent a gap year in the USA before returning to the UK to study. On the first day I met her, she gushed about the USA, spoke in an American accent and told me of her amazing American fiance and how they were totally in love.

By the end of freshers' week, she'd had several guys in our room and I heard no mention of the amazing finace!

Fast forward a few weeks - mid Nov in the first term he flies over from the USA to visit her. She goes to meet him at the airport, dumps him and I never see him. The poor guy got straight back on a plane to the USA having never left the airport. I felt really sorry for him, not least because it must have cost him a lot of money and she had ample opportunity to tell him it was over way before that.

SugarMiceInTheRain Fri 11-Oct-13 13:27:33

I had a holiday booked with a guy who saw fit to dump me with the line 'It's just not right' (no explanation, no warning signs) shortly before we went. There was no way I was going to forfeit my plane ticket, so we spent a rather awkward 10 days together in America. confused

SPBisResisting Fri 11-Oct-13 13:28:05

by fax!! shock

Like kotinka can't help laughing at the broccoli...

I wasn't actually dumped on holiday, but I knew I would be dumped as soon as we got back. It was my only time going to Barbados and it was full of dreamy honeymooners, so the contrast was, um, stark...

stopfightingandtidyupthismess Fri 11-Oct-13 14:20:18

Um - I sort of did the dumping in bed...

My ex-fiance decided that he wanted a temporary split because I was going away with my family for a couple of weeks. He chose to announce this to me while we were lounging about in bed right after we'd had sex. This was the exact moment that I developed my huge cynical view of life, because I could just see exactly how it would play out - during the "temporary split", he would get to shag around, I'd be faithful to him, and he'd "take me back" when I got home. I realised right then and there that he was only ever going to muck me about (he'd cheated on me three times already - you'd think I'd have seen it sooner!) so I dumped him well and truly, saying "I'm not having that. You just want to make sure you can pull and shag anyone you like and not be made to feel guilty by our friends because you'll have told them we've split up. Forget it. I'm not wasting anymore time with a bastard that can't keep his knob inside his own trousers for three weeks!"

From what I hear, he still can't seem to remain faithful, so I had a lucky escape!

JustThisOnceOrTwiceOrThrice Fri 11-Oct-13 15:06:30

stopfighting. Good for you!

In my 20s I dumped a boyfriend on MSN messenger blush But he did have a tendency to get incredibly angry and throw things around over the slightest problem (that's why I was leaving him) and I wasn't brave enough to tell him face-to-face in case he lashed out at me.

AnyFucker Fri 11-Oct-13 17:17:55

Yes, I had a boyfriend once that dumped me right before a lad's holiday, then we "made up" on his return. How thick was I ?

it turned out later some young woman tracked him down to tell him she was pregnant as a result of their liason on that holiday. Oh dear.

AnyFucker Fri 11-Oct-13 18:18:48

"but we were on a break"

Oh do Fuck off dear

Makemineamalibuandpineapple Fri 11-Oct-13 18:19:02

I had a similar experience. After DTD twice with an ex, I woke up at 3am to discover he had done a bunk. I didn't hear from or see him for a week until he came over to dump me shock

kotinka Fri 11-Oct-13 18:28:57

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CruCru Fri 11-Oct-13 18:39:33

I was with someone for 4.5 years (from 17) and we were engaged. I had some super hard exams to sit as part of my new job.

A week before my exams started, he came home at midnight and broke up with me while I was in bed. Two weeks later (the day before I was due to sit the final exam) he rang me to say he regretted it and that he wanted to come round. When I say no, he was was shocked and say "What, I can't come round at all?!?".

He owed me quite a lot of money and was slow to pay it back. God, I dodged a bullet there.

FairOfFaceButFullOfWoe Fri 11-Oct-13 18:50:20

God some of the stories on here are awful! Men can be nasty fuckers! I was with my ex for nearly 6 years (from when I was 15 and he was 18) had our Ds at 17. Right from the start he messed me about, lied to me and was violent. He split up with me loads of times but probably the most heartless was on Christmas Eve while he was drunk. I thought when he asked me round to his house (we never lived together) on Christmas Day that he was sorry but he wasn't and just wanted to clarify that we were definitely finished.

He also prefers men now. I've since found out that a lot of his behaviour and lies all centred around him being with various men (one someone I went to school with). What made it worse was we lived in a small town, so nothing was private and it turned out loads of people knew what he was up to (including at least 2 of my 'best friends') but didn't think it was their place to tell me hmm

So glad I'm now rid of the cunt.

mouseymummy Fri 11-Oct-13 19:16:43

My ex fiancé dumped me via text. 4weeks prior to the wedding.

I had moved 200 miles to be with him, I'd uprooted my dd1, we had papers for him to adopt her, he was supposed to be supporting me through pnd, we were talking about TTC after the wedding. Whole life plans and everything.

About a week after he dumped me, I met him to go through paperwork and to finalise everything between us. He thought it would be an appropriate time to tell me he had met someone else and could he possibly sort out a meeting between her and dd. I told him the adoption would not be going ahead, he threatens to get full custody and throws the pnd in my face. Twat.

A week later I got all the deposits back from the venue, sold my dresses on eBay and had all money paid to my account. I used that to move back home and to get us sorted out back in Yorkshire!!

I cancelled everything in the flat we had and transfered what I couldn't cancel (sky, phone etc) to my new house and so he came back to an empty flat with no power or anything!!

I've not hears from him apart from an apologetic email about 4 years ago. It was apparently my fault he cheated because I wasn't up to "decent sex, only the shitty vanilla stuff" I didn't reply!!

SweetSeraphim Fri 11-Oct-13 20:47:28

Oh my god, some of these are AWFUL shock

SweetSeraphim Fri 11-Oct-13 20:50:05

I did dump someone in bed once. He was smelly. I had tried everything to get him to have a wash, including trying to get him to have sex in the shower, but he remained smelly envy

Those were the days....

Chlorinella Fri 11-Oct-13 21:01:58

I was dumped by ansaphone message once
It's not you it's me ...

kali110 Fri 11-Oct-13 21:02:57

First bf of 3 years dumped by text twice and was then shagging some girl at his uni.
Then partners of 5 years and suppose to marry, dumped me in front of packed pub, then in bed on evening even though had spent day having sex and telling me he loved me. He did it when his parents came over the coward.
Iv learnt my lesson, blokes dont get a second chance with me!

At 17 my fiance broke up with me in bed. i sobbed all night with him lying there in my bed. next morning Mum drove him home. so awkward and out of nowhere for me... I had chosen him as a completely safe bet who would never break up with me. his Mum told him I was messed up and controlling. she was right. it didn't stop him sagging me for a few more weeks though, before deciding to go out with my best friend and asking her out right in front of me. was all a total mess leaving me in hospital from an overdose.

teenagers... I met my husband 2 weeks later and have been together 15 years. so it all worked out well!

kali110 Fri 11-Oct-13 21:21:31

Monstrous thats awfull!!
My one ex id spent two fucking hours getting to his house as train had been
Cancelled, then found other was seeing men too.

Mia4 Fri 11-Oct-13 21:39:30

Went to see my boyfriend after two weeks of him talking about how much he was going to love me and give me an awesome first time experience. Went all they way there, was shutting it and so excited. Waited for him downstairs, wondered why his.mum looked so angry and upset, he came down and told me I wasn't the girl for him and pretty much chucked me out.

Waiting for the bus at the stop down the road I saw him and his new girlfriend laughing as they left the house. I was 15 and devastated.

Was hilarious though a decade later when I saw him.again, he was all over me saying what a dick he had been. I suggested he spend £60 on a couple of really nice wine bottles and then drank them with my friends and left. With them and him still trying to Granby number out of me.

Mia4 Fri 11-Oct-13 21:42:14

Fuck me reading some of these stories I really hope karma caught up to these guys. :-( shitty behaviour from so many.

kotinka Fri 11-Oct-13 21:43:07

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PortHills Fri 11-Oct-13 21:50:47

Hoping this will be cathartic...

Once dumped a lovely guy when he flew to a different continent to meet me. I was having doubts, but naively thought that once I saw him they would all disappear. They didn't, I should have been brave and not let him get on the flight. Still feel ashamed years later.

But he got the last laugh, because we ended up getting back together later, and he then dumped me via email.

Pigsmummy Sat 12-Oct-13 14:03:47

I got dumped at the drop off zone at an airport, in the morning when my flight wasn't until the evening and he knew all earlier flights were full, I got told to get into the car as we were going to have a day out, he drove to the airport then he pulled up to the drop off zone and left me there. been together about 15 months.

BoyFromTheBigBadCity Sun 13-Oct-13 18:03:40

my friend has JUST arrived back from NYC. She had been there for 4 days when he 'd'h dumped her. he had moved out for work, so had his flights etc all paid for, job waiting. she had gone because she may as well pursue work in NYC as it had the UN, so more opportunities for what she wants to do, so had stopped looking for work in London. Had to stay there for another fortnight to try and get everything sorted, esp. money for the flight home again. She now has had to go back to her parents as she has no job or room in London with her friends. less than ideal.

My worst wasn't actually a break up though. A guy I was (am?!?!) friends with and I on more than one occasion go back to his - it's v casual, no relationship, which suits us both. However, he once kicked me out at 5:30 in the morning - shite, but I completely rationalised it and made it my fault. The next time, it was half 4. I was still drunk (cos it had been a late night), and all my other friends (and me) would not allow someone to completely cross London drunk and alone at that time, let alone kick them out. He told me I should just wait for the tubes to start, and that it wouldnt be too bad, cos you know, it's not like there was any relationship. What a wanker.

ScarerAndFuck Sun 13-Oct-13 18:16:14

At work one day a colleague came into my office and asked if we had any cardboard boxes he could take home.

I asked if he was moving house and he said "No, well, Sharon is. We're splitting up and she's moving out and needs some boxes for her stuff."

I said I was sorry and he said "No, it's fine, it's my idea. She doesn't know yet, I'm going to tell her when I give her the boxes." shock

He went on to break up with his next girlfriend while they were in bed. I know this because she worked with us and told everyone. She said she loved him, he didn't reply, she asked him if he loved her and he said "Well actually I've been meaning to talk to you about that..."

ScarerAndFuck Sun 13-Oct-13 18:28:04

An ex boyfriend of mine got dumped by his next girlfriend, who he was living with at the time, when she asked him to drive her the 150 miles or so back to her parents house for a visit to pick up a car they had bought for her.

The arrived, had a lovely weekend, drove back one in each car on the Sunday night. He went to work the next day and found that she had emptied the house of her stuff and driven back to her parents in the new car, never to be seen again.

Apparently she'd booked a removals van to follow her back down the motorway with the furniture and things she couldn't fit in the new car.

brokenhearted55 Sun 13-Oct-13 18:45:44

I got dumped by text recently sad

babybarrister Sun 13-Oct-13 19:56:00

I got a dear John letter left on the table by ex DH who I had been. Married to for 3 years - never saw or spoke to him again, just got letter from his solicitors saying he wanted a divorce...!

When I lived abroad a friend also working out there invited a boyfriend to visit her. Aft a 15 hour journey to see her, she dumped him within a day so he got a flight straight out. Unfortunately give the country, on re-entry to the UK given his short stay he was suspected of drug smuggling and was given the rubber glove treatment grin .... he is now quite famous!!!

MulberryHag Sun 13-Oct-13 20:02:39

Mine isn't nearly as bad as some of these!

Was in bed with BF, he asks me what my favourite number is. I say 6.
Am then told it's not working between us, he dumps me and I spend the night (no car and in a country where cabs aren't available like they are here) crying next to him in bed, while he snores like a pig and sleeps like a baby.

The next day he drops me off two blocks away from my Halls, because he didn't want to have the go down the one way street...

Oh, his parting shot was that if I had answered his question with an "odd number" he wouldn't have broken up with me.... confused

Nowadays, I would've kicked him. Hard.

Pinkdaisy4 Mon 14-Oct-13 06:16:50

I was dumped around four months ago by a twunt who told me how much he loved me etc then totally disappeared. Changed his number, moved jobs and house!

We'd been together for an intense 6 months.

Thank you lovely MN at the time and cake and flowers

CharityFunDay Mon 14-Oct-13 06:39:07

I once attempted to dump my partner by text. I'm not proud of it, but he was a nutter and I didn't want to be anywhere near him. In response to my text he broke into my flat and assaulted me. So I don't feel too bad about it.

I dumped him about seven times in total, all but one of them (i.e., the text) in person, but he wouldn't leave me alone.

Some of the stories on here are just shock though.

Pawprint Mon 14-Oct-13 07:40:43

My ex boyfriend dumped me when I was in hospital. I'd been really ill and I just couldn't believe it sad

The worst thing was he didn't actually tell me, he just stopped ringing and visiting. I had to chase him up until he finally took my call and told me it was over.

Years later, I found him on FB and he did apologise. It gave me some satisfaction to note that he had not had a successful relationship since.

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