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To not have paid.

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Altinkum Thu 20-Jun-13 16:45:26

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Squitten Thu 20-Jun-13 16:47:11

If your ex-friend owes someone else money, why on earth are you putting yourself into the middle of it?

SisterMatic Thu 20-Jun-13 16:49:01

Im confused.

GhoulWithADragonTattoo Thu 20-Jun-13 16:49:58

YWNBU but to be honest I'd just let it go. It sounds like she was pissed off you asked for the money when she's paying for your DCs to go to the party. So she made out that she was expecting payment for one of their meals miraculously cancelling out her debt to you. I'd just let it go given that there's such a small amount of money involved.

SoleSource Thu 20-Jun-13 16:50:04

All seems a bit.petty

HeySoulSister Thu 20-Jun-13 16:51:27

petty and childish

Pancakeflipper Thu 20-Jun-13 16:52:41

I think you should all take a nice big step away from other.

MrsPennyapple Thu 20-Jun-13 16:53:11

If someone was taking my child or children bowling I would assume there would be something to pay, so would have asked how much.

But as a pp said, if she owes someone else, why are you even involved?

Altinkum Thu 20-Jun-13 16:54:30

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EarlyInTheMorning Thu 20-Jun-13 16:55:53

1. Why on earth did you ask her for your friend's money back? What's it got to do with you?

2. Why did you assume that your youngest DS was invited to the party? What did the invitation say exactly?

Altinkum Thu 20-Jun-13 16:57:32

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Struggling to work out who the grown ups are in this.... yaBOTHbu.

Struggling to work out who the grown ups are in this.... yaBOTHbu.

Altinkum Thu 20-Jun-13 17:00:43

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Geordieminx Thu 20-Jun-13 17:02:20

Was in Sharon?

Altinkum Thu 20-Jun-13 17:02:30

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Floggingmolly Thu 20-Jun-13 17:09:01

How much did the meal cost? If she named your younger child on the invitation she should not be charging for the meal... hmm
You'll know to refuse any further invitations!

Altinkum Thu 20-Jun-13 17:18:05

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Altinkum Thu 20-Jun-13 17:20:11

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NotSoNervous Thu 20-Jun-13 17:21:04

If she doesn't owe you the money then why on earth are you getting involved? To me that's asking for trouble but I don't think you should have paid for the bowling thing either

Floggingmolly Thu 20-Jun-13 17:22:21

Of course she shouldn't have charged, she's being a total cow.
No loss at all.

Dackyduddles Thu 20-Jun-13 17:22:50

Are you both under 25.......?

Altinkum Thu 20-Jun-13 17:29:36

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AlistairSim Thu 20-Jun-13 17:34:45

She sounds like a right old pain in the arse.

Don't get drawn into it.

Altinkum Thu 20-Jun-13 17:35:51

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