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To think that after 15 years (Yes that's half way to a second decade together) dh could let this one little moment of madness on my part go?

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So 15 years ago as newly weds, very affectionate and loving etc etc we were staying with dh's parents for Christmas.
When getting ready to leave for the train home he asked me where the tickets were so he could see where our seats were reserved. We were standing in the hall of his parent's house with his mum and siblings all there too.

I replied - 'I don't know, you're the reservations rabbit' Meaning the cute and cuddly peson responsible for those particular tickets obviously <<cringe x 100>>

I think his brother may actually have been sick. 15 years later and dh is still bringing this up. Mentioned it today in fact.

AIBU to think he should let this one moment go now? Or am I just lucky he didn't request an immediate divorce? grin

MammaTJ Sun 20-Jan-13 18:54:51

YABU!! He has the right to go on and on and on about it forever and ever and ever!! grin

Euphemia Sun 20-Jan-13 18:55:17

Reservations rabbit?!

Sorry - he'll still be dragging that rabbit's mouldy old corpse out in another fifteen years!

grin

PassMeTheWino Sun 20-Jan-13 18:55:19

Erm

Trills Sun 20-Jan-13 18:56:23

No, sorry.

That one will live with you forever.

The only way to stop him mentioning it is to somehow goad him into saying something that is equally cringe-inducing to remember, then making a bargain never to speak of it if he never says "reservations rabbit" again.

JamieandtheMagicTorch Sun 20-Jan-13 18:59:39

Aaaw. So cute

Is he also the toilet-cleaning tortoise?

The bin bunny?

The washing up wallaby?

SanityClause Sun 20-Jan-13 18:59:44

Reservations rabbit?

My God, you are lucky he's put up with you this long!

wink

Oh Lord!

It was a moment of madness I tell you. Only two words.

They don't tell you about this sort of stuff before you get hitched.......

InNeatCognac Sun 20-Jan-13 19:01:07

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

SanityClause Sun 20-Jan-13 19:03:52

You obviously haven't taken this seriously.

Really, it's up to you to show how sorry you are for such reprehensible behaviour.

Perhaps you should agree to some kind of counselling to show that you really are serious about saving this marriage?

You're right. I'm a bad person.

Especially as I'm now contemplating using 'bin bunny' when he comes home later. Jamie has enabled me to sink to a new low........

witchface Sun 20-Jan-13 19:08:48

He obviously wants this to be his nickname and keeps reminding you in the hope you call him it again. Go on you know you want to.

Alibabaandthe40nappies Sun 20-Jan-13 19:09:50

<snort>

That is awesome grin

Catchingmockingbirds Sun 20-Jan-13 19:12:25

Think yourself lucky, that comment could have landed you with the role of divorced duckie.

SanityClause Sun 20-Jan-13 19:15:56

Deffo Washing up Wallaby

Or what about Laundry Llama?

Sweeping Squirrel?

Hoovering Hedgehog?

grin

Jux Sun 20-Jan-13 19:16:53

He is duty bound to bring it up as often as he can, for the rest of your life, and to ensure it is carved elegantly on your headstone.

SanityClause Sun 20-Jan-13 19:17:01

Dusting Deer

Ironing Ibex

SanityClause Sun 20-Jan-13 19:18:17

Cooking Koala

Spring cleaning Springbok

IceNoSlice Sun 20-Jan-13 19:18:24

So did he have the tickets?

<spectacularly misses the point>

wink

SanityClause Sun 20-Jan-13 19:19:01

Bed making Badger

Tidying Terrapin

bed making badger grin

Sanity I don't think you're taking this seriously!

Yes he had the tickets. Of course he had the tickets. He's very good with things like that which is why I made him the reservations rabbit.

Oooops.

I need help clearly.

MolehillAlchemy Sun 20-Jan-13 19:33:19

Coulda been worse. Imagine if you had said Weservations Wabbit!

TheDoctrineOfSnatch Sun 20-Jan-13 19:36:25

I sense a new MN phrase in the making...

ithaka Sun 20-Jan-13 19:37:41

I am going to go against the tide here and say that I think this relationship can be saved - but you have to genuinely want to change and show that you are committed - perhaps you could visit a counselling capybara?

Ithaka I was thinking warm thoughts towards you till I got to the end of that post!

Molehill - I seem to recall (it is a VERY long time ago) that I said it very brightly and with a cheery smile on my face.

Is it any mitigation that I was pregnant at the time?

cheesesarnie Sun 20-Jan-13 19:43:47

you need help op.

<want to say resevation rabbit in a rl conversation for some odd reason>.

cheesesarnie Sun 20-Jan-13 19:44:51

if you were pregnant its ok. hormones etc. so long as you didnt name your baby baby badger

MolehillAlchemy Sun 20-Jan-13 19:48:29

Hmmm, maybe instead of a counsellor, you need someone with more a medical background. You could go see your Doc and ask him what's up?

That's a cheap shot Molehill.
There's a whole warren of possibilities open to you and you had to burrow around and come up with that one!

TheDoctrineOfSnatch Sun 20-Jan-13 19:57:15

Ah, you were pregnant? You were a Child-carrying Chihuahua?

JustFabulous Sun 20-Jan-13 19:58:08

I am shock this is your thread NL.

Was your BIL sick because he thinks you have several rabbits? Reservation rabbit, rampant rabbit.....

MolehillAlchemy Sun 20-Jan-13 20:00:20

I don't know why it Bugs you so much...

Allaquandry Sun 20-Jan-13 20:08:27

Is DH called Roger?

He was clearly framed.

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