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Boyfriend is being funny with me, possibly because of something i posted on facebook?

(28 Posts)
BrushUpYourArse Mon 10-Dec-12 10:28:07

I posted yesterday a status about being escorted to my car by a brick shit house security guard. One of my friends posted "was he hot?" And I replied "I couldn't possibly comment LOL"

Anyway it was just a bit of daftness but boyfriend has been off with me ever since. He hasn't actually mentioned it but his whole tone towards me has been "cool". No kisses in his texts and generally being quite stroppy. Is he over-reacting or was I being unreasonable?

SaintNiChaolas Mon 10-Dec-12 10:30:47

Well...

Uh...

Um...

Not sure..

Soz...

SantasComingFace Mon 10-Dec-12 10:31:15

He's overreacting in my opinion

SantasLittleHo Mon 10-Dec-12 10:32:30

Ask him.

CajaDeLaMemoria Mon 10-Dec-12 10:33:16

Well... It's difficult to say, because we don't know him, or you, and it's entirely possible he's upset over something else.

I mean, it'd be a stupid thing to get upset over, but then it's a stupid thing to say anyway. So really you are both unreasonable. Childish comment, childish reaction.

That said, maybe he's upset that you've told everyone you were escorted to your car by a security guard?

AlexReidsLonelyThisChristmas Mon 10-Dec-12 10:33:25

LTB.

HECTheHallsWithRowsAndFolly Mon 10-Dec-12 10:33:49

I think it always helps to reverse it.

Your boyfriend posts a status about being escorted to his car by a willowy woman. one of his friends posts "was she hot?" and he replies "I couldn't possibly comment LOL"

would you laugh? would you feel a twinge of jealousy? would you feel it was a bit disrespectful to be joking in front of everyone about some other woman's gorgeousness? would you think it was nothing at all?

No kisses in texts? Moods over things on FB?

In my day people just talked to each other and didn't have to decipher coded messages or figure out how much we were loved by how many kisses were on the end of a text. It was all so simple then.

SaintNiChaolas Mon 10-Dec-12 10:35:16

Bloody Hectate with her sensible frilly knuckers on

redskyatnight Mon 10-Dec-12 10:35:41

Um ... talk to him? It might be something else entirely that's bothering him.

WorraLorraTurkey Mon 10-Dec-12 10:37:08

How awful for all concerned xxx

Are you 13?

LOL at Worra grin You naughty woman!

bradyismyfavouritewiseman Mon 10-Dec-12 10:44:16

How awful for all concerned xxx

grin

AnyFuckerForAMincePie Mon 10-Dec-12 10:45:00

"boyfriend being funny with me"

"facebook"

"kisses in texts"

Loses interest and wanders off....

<feels old>

WorraLorraTurkey Mon 10-Dec-12 10:49:14

I can't think what you mean Baubles? xxx

SantaisBarredfromhavingStella Mon 10-Dec-12 10:51:29

Oh please!!! Grow up & try actually asking him if something is wrong........ hmm

TheDreadedFoosa Mon 10-Dec-12 10:55:00

Im not on facebook.

No help to you, i know, but never get tired of announcing it.

Fakebook Mon 10-Dec-12 10:55:13

0161 952 0745.

Jeremy Kyle is your friend.

Fakebook, can you please announce JK's number in the CORRECT manner?

"It's 0161 It's 95 It's 20 It's 745..."

TheDreadedFoosa Mon 10-Dec-12 10:57:17

Look, he's probably just processing the whole " fuck, im going out with someone who posts pointless, irrelevant shite on facebook"

Give him some space sad

WorraLorraTurkey Mon 10-Dec-12 10:59:20

Why are shit houses always made of brick?

Surely wood is good enough, and you can paint it all sorts of pretty colours?

Fakebook Mon 10-Dec-12 11:00:43

Sorry. grin. Thanks for correcting it.

Pandemoniaa Mon 10-Dec-12 11:01:24

lolz @ worra

Latara Mon 10-Dec-12 11:06:02

Note to OP: Do not ever comment publicly on other men except to say they are ugly. Then you won't piss off your boyfriend!

mrskeithrichards Mon 10-Dec-12 11:16:55

Lots of lulz!!!!1!!11

TakeMyEyesButNotTheGoat Mon 10-Dec-12 11:22:35

OP won't be back.

2 posts yesterday about telling her DP she loves him in a Xmas card. No reply to either posts.

It's 'boxroom' again!

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