To think that Tulisa should show some sisterly dignity

(54 Posts)
RiceAndP Wed 21-Nov-12 10:37:39

Have never liked the girl but over the last few days I have grown to dislike her even more. How dare she take her so called Female Boss (Whatever) stance as to slate the Mother of her new Beau as a Bitch, Lying Skank, Wrongen and a Psychotic obsessed nutter. Her own war of words on her twitter.
FFS this is not a playground spat over boyfriends and pigtails this is a Mother of a young child and soon to be mum again who she has directed this vile tirade at. She should be ashamed of herself and keep her head down. We all know how hard it is to be a mum without other women putting the boot in.
Yes in the grand scheme of things these are not your everyday women out there but when children are involved she should remain mindful of the damage that can be done in situations like this and I suppose Tulisa will not have this outlook as she is not a Mother herself, Horrid women who I shall not be watching on the telly anytime soon. Class and dignity obviously evades her.

TraineeBabyCatcher Wed 21-Nov-12 10:43:59

Sorry, did I blink and miss something? Do you have a link because currently I don't have a clue what your post is about.

AmberLeaf Wed 21-Nov-12 10:44:49

She said that about her boyfriends mum ?

Vivalebeaver Wed 21-Nov-12 10:47:04

It's her boyfriends ex, not boyfriends mum.

RiceAndP Wed 21-Nov-12 10:50:51

Trainee, I,m not computer savy on how to post to post a link.Amber this is Tulisa,s new fella,s exp who she is slating in the national press. yes take with a pinch of salt what is said in the papers but this is what Tulisa has actually posted on her twitter account so from the horses mouth.

hmm I don't think that one has to be a mother to realise that publicly slating the mother of your partner's child is pathetic and likely to cause a great deal of upset to all concerned.

InNeedOfBrandy Wed 21-Nov-12 10:54:34

My mum always says money can never buy class....

squeakytoy Wed 21-Nov-12 10:55:30

Tulisa has always been a chavvy bit of rough.. an expensive frock wont change what is underneath.

threesocksmorgan Wed 21-Nov-12 10:55:41

is the other woman her sister?

StaceeJaxx Wed 21-Nov-12 10:56:49


I used to like her when she was still in N-Dubz, but when she joined the X Factor I couldn't stand her. Still can't stand her. Also she's dating a footballer! What does she expect, they all lie and cheat (apart from the gorgeous Jamie Rednapp wink).

MikeLitoris Wed 21-Nov-12 10:57:58

She is definitely wrong for what she has said but to be fair to her it has been proven that the ex is a liar and they were not actually together when he met tulisa.

Why should they ex be allowed to make money by slating tulisa without any come back?

<im off to get a life>

Charming individuals, all of them.

AmberLeaf Wed 21-Nov-12 11:08:10

How long has Tulisa been with this man then?

squeakytoy Wed 21-Nov-12 11:24:06

I think they have been together about a month... (his ex is 11 weeks pregnant with his child - allegedly)

Fakebook Wed 21-Nov-12 11:27:33

confused... Are you the ex girlfriend?

TheCrackFox Wed 21-Nov-12 11:37:28

I just don't think Tulisa is all that bright TBH. What if her relationship with this footballer turns serious? She could end up being the step mother of these children whose mother she has very publically berated. She should have kept a dignified silence.

BuddyTheChristmasElf Wed 21-Nov-12 11:40:26

she's not famous for being classy though is she?
she knows that she could be a nobody again by this time next year so she has to keep beating her own personal record on how to be trashy to stay "interesting"

mignonette Wed 21-Nov-12 11:46:22

Seeing as one of the girls works as a health care assistant, a trashy 'pop muppet' (Tulisa) telling her to 'get a job' is a bit rich......

StickEmUp Wed 21-Nov-12 11:49:01

Well to be fair the ex GF did accuse her of going out with her EX while they were together.
If someone said this about me, I'd want the truth out.

Where is the ex GF's Sisterlyness then???

AmberLeaf Wed 21-Nov-12 11:52:15

Its all a bit jeremy jyle for me, however, I suppose if Tulisa has to deal with people doing stories implicating her, her own twitter feed may be the only way to get her exact words out there?

Its all a bit pathetic though, she barely knows him and seems to have fallen for the 'my ex is mad' trick already.

She needs to join Mumsnet......maybe ill tweet her a link

RiceAndP Wed 21-Nov-12 14:50:13

sadly Tulisa is in the public eye and for some reason is a role model to young people so its not the way for her to behave. As for the ex she feels agreived and rightly so even if she is a liar or not she is still the Mother of his child and the unborn one so really he should tell Tulisa to keep her trap firmly shut and stop slating his exp so publicly and think of his child.
There is no way on earth that my dc will ever have Tulisa album at home. I dread to think that dc would end up worshipping This self proclaimed Female Boss, (Laugh out loud) she is a knobend.

tisnottheseasonyet Wed 21-Nov-12 14:57:04

Wait, so unless I (or Tulisa) let my partner's ex bad mouth me and spout complete horseshit in the media, I'm being non-sisterly, and by extension, anti-feminist?


MrsjREwing Wed 21-Nov-12 14:58:08

Nutta, not nutter, classy! Tulisa cheated on the shameless guy with the footballer. Jezza where are you?

InNeedOfBrandy Wed 21-Nov-12 14:59:24

Could you imagine Kate Middleton sprouting off on twitter for the things they say about her? No nor me. Tulisa needs to stop acting like she's from a JK show.

SantaisBarredfromhavingStella Wed 21-Nov-12 15:01:52

My Gran would have said 'fur coat & no knickers that one' grin


RiceAndP Wed 21-Nov-12 15:03:19

The point is that she should keep her mouth shut as their is a young child involved and its not fair on the child. Tulisa should be adult enough to realise this and keep a dignified silence. like I said even more so because she is in the public eye and unfortunately on tv every saturday. Its got nothing to do with anti-feminist at all.

tisnottheseasonyet Wed 21-Nov-12 15:04:58


Tulisa has earned her fame (I hate her music too, but clearly enough people like it), Kate just shagged an heir. So if we want to compare the two for class...

InNeedOfBrandy Wed 21-Nov-12 15:05:13

It actually makes you look better keeping your mouth shut then pointlessly defending yourself in a cruel bitchy way.

tisnottheseasonyet Wed 21-Nov-12 15:09:53

And also, Kate isn't allowed to speak without running past a team of advisors we pay for, so hardly a fair comparison either.

RiceAndP Wed 21-Nov-12 15:10:26

yer ya get me nah nah nye!!! FFS its bad enough her opinion is taken any notice of on that show without her having the cheek to call the exp Broke Bitch! Simon Cowell get rid of her quick innit!!!

KenLeeeeeee Wed 21-Nov-12 15:12:33

Yuk. Cringey behaviour from someone I've seen described as a "role model" - on here nonetheless!

MrsjREwing Wed 21-Nov-12 15:13:57

Chezza and Vicky kept their mouths shut when there was alledged cheating going on in their relationships.

I used to like Tulisa before this and I think it is why Ella was voted off.

I think Tulisa is bipolar like her Mum from observations and kiss and tells.

DappyHays Wed 21-Nov-12 15:15:55

Oh is Tulisa a pop star? I thought she was just famous for slapping her own face with her bf's knob.

BiteTheTopsOffIcedGems Wed 21-Nov-12 15:16:22

Kate just shagged an heir
She didn't just shag him. They are married!

RiceAndP Wed 21-Nov-12 15:22:27

yes I agree MrsjRE and it has totally put me off watching the xfactor now. I just want to reach into the telly and tell Tulisa to sort herself out. But I don,t think she is bipolar just suffers from having no class. I suffer from mental health issues (Not ashamed to admit) but i,m sensible enough to know when to keep my gob shut in certain situations.She is vile.

tisnottheseasonyet Wed 21-Nov-12 15:32:30

"Oh is Tulisa a pop star? I thought she was just famous for slapping her own face with her bf's knob"

Well she's been famous nationally from long before that video emerged, so you're wrong on that front. And shame on you for being so cuntish about the fact her ex betrayed her. I think the OP needs to give you a lecture on being sisterly.

DappyHays Wed 21-Nov-12 15:36:25

arf at cuntish grin

wannaBe Wed 21-Nov-12 15:44:42

so, all those of you publically slagging off Tulisa on a public internet forum (mn) are different to her in what way exactly? hmm or is it only wrong to do so if you're famous? hmm

InNeedOfBrandy Wed 21-Nov-12 15:46:32

Yes slagging off a sleb is the same as publicly slagging off your boyfriends childs mother. hmm

wannaBe Wed 21-Nov-12 15:50:14

well, plenty of people slag off their dh's ex's on here.

Calling tulisa a chav and the c word is, in fact, no different IMO.

You are still slagging off someone publically.

Pagwatch Wed 21-Nov-12 15:51:05

I think the opinions random women on a forum tend not to be splashed across the media in the same way a celebrity slagging off an individual are.

But if people want to stick my opinion all over twitter the headline would be 'Pagwatch says Tulisa would have been better to behave with a little dignity'. She can then retort that I am a middle aged old bag.
It's not that riveting tbh

MoomieAndFreddie Wed 21-Nov-12 15:54:52

i wondered when this would make it to MN....

the "boy" involved sounds like a prize twat

and tulisa is really showing her immaturity.

Frontpaw Wed 21-Nov-12 15:56:38

Ah, you can take the (wo)man out of the bog, but you can't take the bog out of the (wo)man. I never thought she was a very nice person.

MrsjREwing Wed 21-Nov-12 15:58:58

As a child I would prefer historical rants of nutta from Tulisa about my Mum, over having to be confronted with the Reid/Houghton breakup.

MikeLitoris Wed 21-Nov-12 21:38:53

So tulisa shouldnt say things about this woman as she has a child and it isnt fair to her.

But its ok for the childs own mother to sell her story to the national papers and falsely accuse tulisa of being a home wrecker?


DappyHays Wed 21-Nov-12 23:16:00

Tulisa makes Biffa Cole look classy.

InNeedOfBrandy Wed 21-Nov-12 23:20:12

Erm 2 wrongs don't make a right and she makes herself look worse by slagging the "baby mother" off. It's called dignity and class Tulisa has none. and I'm expecting a Jeremy Kyle show DNA and lie detector tests

WilsonFrickett Thu 22-Nov-12 00:01:54

So being a mother trumps everything? You can spread lies and rumours and even sell your story to the highest bidder, but no one can retaliate, or put their side of the story across, simply because you've pushed a child out of your vagina? I have no time for Tulisa, but why shouldn't she put her side over on her own (unpaid) Twitter feed?

WilsonFrickett Thu 22-Nov-12 00:03:41

The point is that she should keep her mouth shut as their is a young child involved and its not fair on the child.

If the child's mother won't keep her mouth shit, why should anyone else?

WilsonFrickett Thu 22-Nov-12 00:04:28

^^ shut, not shit. Obvs. blush

WorraLiberty Thu 22-Nov-12 00:19:56

The whole thing's really childish.

But YABU to use phrases like 'sisterly' me that sounds as though you're saying she shouldn't be slagging her off because she's a woman.

No-one should be slagging anyone off or selling stories to the newspapers about each other...whether they're male/female/with or without children.

Badgersnatch Thu 22-Nov-12 08:58:55

ROFL at Biffa Cole.

Tulisa will be eating worms in the jungle by the time she's thirty.

yaimee Thu 22-Nov-12 12:06:14

Perhaps just a statement such as 'xxxx accusations are untrue and I am deeply hurt by them' and then dealing with the rest in private might have been best. Always take the higher ground and you'll come out on top!

ChaoticismyLife Thu 22-Nov-12 14:16:34

So this is what Louis was talking about last Saturday when he called Tulisa a WAG

<misses point of thread entirely>

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