(138 Posts)
HullyEastergully Tue 20-Nov-12 12:24:23


HullyEastergully Tue 20-Nov-12 12:27:20


redlac Tue 20-Nov-12 12:28:36


C'mon Coffeepot!!!

EasilyBored Tue 20-Nov-12 12:29:59

Link to previous thread please? Clearly I am trying to avoid doing work...

Previous thread, and a bump. smile


Pippinintherain Tue 20-Nov-12 12:37:40


i really need to know.

cheekybaubles Tue 20-Nov-12 13:09:15

I'm going to share your bumps and say they were all mine grin

MummyAbroad Tue 20-Nov-12 13:11:11

bump. <desperate for news>

rainonmyparade Tue 20-Nov-12 13:15:11


WandaDoff Tue 20-Nov-12 13:34:45


DameEnidsOrange Tue 20-Nov-12 13:36:13

And another wee bump

littleladyindoors Tue 20-Nov-12 13:37:45

bump- I now really need to know- teach me to click on things!!!

FrequentFlyerRandomDent Tue 20-Nov-12 13:40:01


bellabelly Tue 20-Nov-12 13:43:35

I'm also going to share all of your bumps but I'm not going to pay anything towards them.

MammaTJ Tue 20-Nov-12 13:47:51

I have brought cake (see my pics), so I declare the bumps to be mine!!

SlightlySuperiorPeasant Tue 20-Nov-12 13:48:47

Bumpety bump

Coffeepot - I have a cold am Very Ill at the moment and need to know what happens next so I don't fret and send my temperature up.

Or I am a bit poorly, feeling sorry for myself, and nosy. blush

MikeOxard Tue 20-Nov-12 13:54:23

I haven't contributed to either thread and don't intend to, but please could everyone note that this thread is actually half mine. I'm the co-OP. Sooooo just leave presents for me at the door as you pop in, thanks.

bigbadbarry Tue 20-Nov-12 13:55:14

bump smile

poorbuthappy Tue 20-Nov-12 13:55:49

bump again...

B u m p

Shinyshoes1 Tue 20-Nov-12 13:59:49

She might have been arrested for "GBH "with the cake as the weapon shock

foofooyeah Tue 20-Nov-12 14:01:47

I need to know as well now! Update please

Groovee Tue 20-Nov-12 14:12:50

I've pm'ed the OP with a link to this thread. Fingers crossed for a response soon x

HullyEastergully Tue 20-Nov-12 14:26:22

Anyone had any pm answers?

CockyPants Tue 20-Nov-12 14:32:36


CockyPants Tue 20-Nov-12 14:33:04

OP a nation needs to know

ratbagcatbag Tue 20-Nov-12 14:33:20

C'mon I want to know.

loopylou6 Tue 20-Nov-12 14:34:16


AitchTwoOhOneTwo Tue 20-Nov-12 14:37:11

omg just read the first thread... am AGOG.

BobbiFleckmann Tue 20-Nov-12 14:37:47

I like to think that the uninvited birthday party sharer is the same person who has dumped a horse in someone's field uninvited.
two absolute GOLD stories. Am agog to find out what happens in both.

HullyEastergully Tue 20-Nov-12 14:37:55

Aitch - use your influence with HQ, get them to send her threatening emails if she doesn't come update.

HullyEastergully Tue 20-Nov-12 14:38:18

LINK TO HORSE AT ONCE if you please

BobbiFleckmann Tue 20-Nov-12 14:38:26

haha snap agog aitch

CordeliaChase Tue 20-Nov-12 14:40:10

I didn't see the original thread until just now, how bloody cheeky!! I can't actually believe the audacity of some people angry

BobbiFleckmann Tue 20-Nov-12 14:40:11

the horse one is quite literally amazing (bear with me on link attempt):

AitchTwoOhOneTwo Tue 20-Nov-12 14:40:30

hahah bobbi. both us sitting here, mouths gaping.
Hully am waaaay ahead of you. i've texted Justine. She's sent out the dogs.

AitchTwoOhOneTwo Tue 20-Nov-12 14:40:51

i haven't. she hasn't.

HullyEastergully Tue 20-Nov-12 14:43:26


HullyEastergully Tue 20-Nov-12 14:44:57

Thanks bobbi. I like th ebattle for concern between there/their and the dumped gee gee

I need to know now too and I've invited all my relatives so the thread is infact mine.

Indith Tue 20-Nov-12 14:50:52

I too need to know!

DontSweatTheSmallStuff Tue 20-Nov-12 14:53:55

marking place in amazement at some people's cheek!

GreenyEyes Tue 20-Nov-12 14:56:45

There was a very similar thread a couple of years ago (party share thing)

I remember because I basically disagreed with the * *whole of mumsnet in that I wouldn't have been that bothered really grin

* * except Hully

GreenyEyes Tue 20-Nov-12 14:57:42

I haven't read this recent thread though


MrsAceRimmer Tue 20-Nov-12 14:58:14

It's my thread now cos I made the cake MYSELF!

HullyEastergully Tue 20-Nov-12 15:02:16

Haven't the people who PMed replied either? I am going to go into conspiracy theory overdrive

That horse one was excellent!

KenLeeeeeee Tue 20-Nov-12 16:14:10

Nothing yet???

Lilylightfoot Tue 20-Nov-12 16:28:10

this is on chat as well.

Groovee Tue 20-Nov-12 17:08:38

No reply to PM here x

Bump. Now off to read the one about the horse ..


Flumpyflumps Tue 20-Nov-12 18:09:59

Oh good grief the suspense is killing me <eyes wine to calm nerves>

BRANdishingMistletoe Tue 20-Nov-12 18:19:40

I didn't know everyone was waiting over here on this thread. I was hanging around the original thread like a lemon. angry Are you all trying to dump me? <paranoid>

I sort of hope it was a hoax, because that other mum sounded a bit fearsome and not too concerned with trivial social etiquette, like not having an all out fist fight when not getting your own way.

grobagsforever Tue 20-Nov-12 18:51:10

Arghhhhh. I have been waiting ALL DAY for an update.

shrimponastick Tue 20-Nov-12 18:53:50

Bump from me too

LaCiccolina Tue 20-Nov-12 18:55:25

What does "bump" mean please? No comprende.... Sorry cheers guys (blush)

Really want to know too how orig post turns out.....

ZeldaUpNorth Tue 20-Nov-12 18:58:23

Bump, just means bumping the thread back to the top so more chance of being seen.

La it means putting a new post on a thread so that it comes up in Active Convos and appears in your list of Threads I'm Watching.

I'm dying to know too, what a cheeky mare! grin

Bicnod Tue 20-Nov-12 19:03:34


nilbyname Tue 20-Nov-12 19:03:54

Oh i lurked on the other thread, the cheek of the other woman!

Please give us an update!!

Bicnod Tue 20-Nov-12 19:04:12

Arse. Meant bump. Stupid phone.

EchoBitch Tue 20-Nov-12 19:35:29

<<passes joint>>. To the person on the left.

SlightlySuperiorPeasant Tue 20-Nov-12 19:38:30


Ice cream please.

BMW6 Tue 20-Nov-12 19:54:49


ExitPursuedByMarieAntoinette Tue 20-Nov-12 19:57:22



I prefer the horse thread. We get updates there.

Lilylightfoot Tue 20-Nov-12 20:05:50

the name of this thread makes me think she spaced out on weed somewere.grin

ImperialStateKnickers Tue 20-Nov-12 20:20:40

Marking place...

BewitchedBotheredandBewildered Tue 20-Nov-12 20:22:49



Passes to left.



<wanders off suffering from the munchies>


HecatePropylaea Tue 20-Nov-12 20:43:55

She hasn't been on MN today.

Maybe - just maybe - she's one of these really weird creatures who <gasp> doesn't come on here half of every day


It's one of them there 'real life' thingies people keep talking about.

RL. pah. Waste of time, if you ask me...

IwishIwasmoreorganised Tue 20-Nov-12 20:45:49

How very disappointing!

I was sure we would have had some news by now.

Dear god this is quite literally ruining my life. Coffeedog probably had no idea of the dark powers of mind control that she possesses. Derren Brown got nothing on her.

stifnstav Tue 20-Nov-12 20:52:19

I haven't been coping very well today, simply because I need to know about the bladdy partaaaaay!

I'm grinding my teeth ffs!

stifnstav Tue 20-Nov-12 20:55:48

Sparkle, join the club! I think we should be the "Not Knowing If It Is A Joint/Not Joint Party Destroyed My Life Quiche"

coffeeinbed Tue 20-Nov-12 20:57:15

I think someone ended up wearing the cake.
Wonder if it was the OP or pushy mum..

I'm in. I'll make the badges, you devise the secret oath.

ImperialStateKnickers Tue 20-Nov-12 20:57:56

Coffee thingy please stop messing about with that boring real life of yours and get back here NOW!

HecatePropylaea Tue 20-Nov-12 20:58:53

Party itself isn't for another couple of weeks yet, according to her OP on the other thread.

So we won't know for sure if the woman's going to turn up, even if the OP has talked to her.

we'll have to wait a couple of weeks.

rumbelina Tue 20-Nov-12 21:06:57

I thought she said 6 days so this Saturday.

HecatePropylaea Tue 20-Nov-12 21:10:38

Oh. My mistake. It said their birthday was in a couple of weeks not the party.

Posted on 18th. Said party was next weekend

So that's this weekend coming, yes, you're right.

I should learn to read properly grin

hugoagogo Tue 20-Nov-12 21:12:22


stifnstav Tue 20-Nov-12 21:14:38

The party is next week but the confrontation was happening this week.

HecatePropylaea Tue 20-Nov-12 21:15:50

Yes, but it ain't over till the fat lady blows out the candles grin

Woman could still show up, regardless.

hmm It sounds like I am hoping for that. I am not. Honestly, I'm not grin

HecatePropylaea Tue 20-Nov-12 21:16:50

hmm that would have been better as it ain't over till the fat lady sings happy birthday.

why do I think of the better things AFTER posting.


I hate waiting for something, especially if, like today, my back is excruciating. On the plus side, DP has lifted all my heavy things, carried bags, made tea/coffee, etc, so a silver lining.

So its in a church hall? Should we start ringing round them, see if we can find a party for twin boys and a little princess? And they'll say, "oh no, that party's been cancelled, one mum is in a&e and the other was arrested"...?
Sorted wink

grobagsforever Tue 20-Nov-12 21:44:29

Baaaaah! I want to go to bed!!!!!!!grin

Gawd. Is she still not back?
Cruel, thats what this is, cruel.

First not sharing a party, then making us all wait for an update, has she no heart?

grobagsforever Wed 21-Nov-12 07:13:10

Right that's it, I'm moving on. I no longer care what happens. Hear that everyone? I DON'T CARE!

MulledWineOnTheBusLady Wed 21-Nov-12 08:14:29

<ambles through>

Onlyjoking Wed 21-Nov-12 10:52:50

Come on where's my pink party bag, oh and you did get get some pink party bags didn't you? Only I've invited lots of girls.

iismum Wed 21-Nov-12 12:11:48

Wait, I'm confused. Surely we want to find out about what happened because coffeedog painted a picture of this evil party usurper, and then someone else came on and said I think I might be the other mum you are talking about, and if so it wasn't at all how you said and I'm not evil or party-usurping.

So what I want to know is - is that the other mum coffeedog was talking about, and she totally misrepresenting the situation? Or are there coincidentally two pirate parties for twin boys in which a little girl is joining in - in one case, uninvited, and in the other case, amicably - except it my all go to shit because that mum thinks coffeedog is talking about her. Which is it?

But most posters on here seem only interested in the outcome of the party (which doesn't really seem to deserve its own thread) rather than the identification or not of the party usurper.

DappyHays Wed 21-Nov-12 12:55:01

I'll give you an update:

Nothing happened because the original story was a crock.

grobagsforever Wed 21-Nov-12 13:15:31

£100 says coffeedog has named changed...

diddl Wed 21-Nov-12 13:26:35

Well I´m hoping that if it is real, it was a misunderstanding that gets sorted out & all the kids have a lovely time.

BuddyTheChristmasElf Wed 21-Nov-12 14:07:53

can someone please tell me where possible other mum of girl asked if the OP was about her?

VitoCorleone Wed 21-Nov-12 14:35:52


SlightlySuperiorPeasant Wed 21-Nov-12 15:19:57
lionheart Wed 21-Nov-12 19:54:12

There was a thread about a visit to a pizza place once where the OP was critical of some other diners (behaviour of children, not leaving a tip, creating an almighty mess). Then the other woman came on with her version. grin

Ilovecake1 Wed 21-Nov-12 20:06:50


OliviaMumsnet (MNHQ) Wed 21-Nov-12 20:47:12

hmm at this thread about a thread.

AitchTwoOhOneTwo Wed 21-Nov-12 21:00:54

hoho, Ollie, this is sooooo not THE thread about that thread.

MikeLitoris Wed 21-Nov-12 21:04:28

Your hmm about this thread? shock

Much better bollocks thread going on in aibu.

MacAndCheese Wed 21-Nov-12 21:08:54

We're just concerned citizens Olivia.

Doing our bit for public safety and all that.

Merely concerned for the continued wellbeing of both OPs.

[angel] got any insider knowledge? wink

BRANdishingMistletoe Wed 21-Nov-12 21:12:25

NOOOOO, don't send Olivia over to the other thread. It's so long and fascinating she will never get any work done.

In fact, what other thread? There is no other thread. That is not the thread you are looking for. <Jedi mind thingy at work>

MacAndCheese Wed 21-Nov-12 21:20:12

Oh no!

I agree with bran

Lets distract.

Hello Olivia smile how are you this miserable drizzly and damp day quiet and uneventful evening?

Have wine

BRANdishingMistletoe Wed 21-Nov-12 21:41:04

Pah! Olivia found it, and it is going to be deleted. sad

I still want to hear the final update, it would be good to know that all the DC had a lovely party/parties.

AitchTwoOhOneTwo Wed 21-Nov-12 22:01:27

why is it going to be deleted?

PrincessFiorimonde Wed 21-Nov-12 22:11:10

It hasn't been deleted (yet); it's been locked. Olivia said it all got too personal (I paraphrase).

OliviaMumsnet (MNHQ) Wed 21-Nov-12 22:23:27

what ARE you lot like?!

PrincessFiorimonde Wed 21-Nov-12 22:24:28

<considers knuckles rapped> blush

VivaLeBeaver Wed 21-Nov-12 22:24:42


diddl Thu 22-Nov-12 07:17:39

Aww-other thread has gonesad

LadyBeagle Thu 22-Nov-12 07:26:37

What a spoilsport you are Olivia sad

dearprudence Thu 22-Nov-12 07:31:40

Both of the other threads have gone <sob>.

I had to go and to RL things last night so I missed it - can anyone tell me what happened?

Without breaking talk guidelines of course, <innocent smile>

browniebear Thu 22-Nov-12 07:58:42

As far as I know dearpru nothing has happened, clumsy and coffeedog have disappeared, we're all left hanging

BegoniaBampot Thu 22-Nov-12 08:08:23

There were two mums having a barney yesterday morning at school. Very unusual as you know we are quite posh. D'ya think...

LaCiccolina Thu 22-Nov-12 08:57:23

It will b all the refs to kicking in clunges and such like

(Puts on head mistress face) of course it would b deleted then ! Pity as we may never find out now...

Sob sob. What will we do today?!?

dearprudence Thu 22-Nov-12 09:11:42

Thanks brownie and LaCiccolina. Yes, the kicking minge talk might have done it! And I saw some RL names being used as well, so didn't expect it to be around for too long.

loopylou6 Thu 22-Nov-12 10:18:18

WHAT? Why has it been deleted? Does that confirm it was trollage?

ExitPursuedByMarieAntoinette Thu 22-Nov-12 11:51:11

I am pretty sure it was.

Everlong Thu 22-Nov-12 11:52:59

What the whole damn thing?

OliviaMumsnet (MNHQ) Thu 22-Nov-12 12:02:31


WHAT? Why has it been deleted? Does that confirm it was trollage?

No. Absolutely no confirmation of anything hairy handed
More a case of Mumsnet isn't really the place to settle personal disagreements.

EggNogRules Thu 22-Nov-12 12:02:40

Are a bunch of psychology students having a laugh? hmm

What the feck is going on?

Ullena Thu 22-Nov-12 12:13:22

You know, I'm starting to see why my DM never allowed birthday parties...

ExitPursuedByMarieAntoinette Thu 22-Nov-12 14:43:30


fosterdream Thu 22-Nov-12 14:55:18

Well I think I know what happened...

Maybe they fought to death but everyone thought it was some kind of party entertainment and just cheered. But sadly it was not for entertainment sad

ExitPursuedByMarieAntoinette Thu 22-Nov-12 15:08:40

Clumsy has started another thread....

The other thread has been deleted too... Any new developments??

(I'm so sad sin't I? But I NEED to know!)

VivaLeBeaver Thu 22-Nov-12 19:12:58

I want to know what's happening as well, is there another thread?

angel1976 Thu 22-Nov-12 19:57:53

I'm so glad I found this thread, I thought I was condemned to never knowing the truth... Can someone come and update please? grin

<whispers> there's another one in AIBU, cant do links on phone sorry

Anythingforabitofpeace Thu 22-Nov-12 20:01:15

I walked past two women mid conversation when I was out shopping today and I overheard '...and she's invited the whole class!' All I could think of was Coffedog and the shared birthday party!

Wonders if Coffedog is from N.I

Maryz Thu 22-Nov-12 20:08:14

Personally I think Mumsnet is a great place to sort out personal differences.

<kicks everyone in the fanjo>

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