DP and I have been together for 8 yrs, we have 4 DC.
We always intended on getting married, but things have always got in the way, such as children, needing a car, bills ect.
The children have his surname, and I don't like having a different name. Also I would like to be married, but feel I am only (hopfully) going to do it once so would like it to be perfect.
I don't want a massive wedding, about £5,000 would be enough for everything I want...but we don't have that money and saving would take a good few years and would mean going without holidays ect.
In your humble opinion mnet ladies, should I stop wasting time and just do it on the cheap or save for exactly what I want.
(DP would just like to get married BTW, he doesn't care about 'the day'.)
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To wait to get married until I have more money...whenever that may be.
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spybear · 15/06/2010 09:32
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