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my sister, her dp and her dcs moved in with my dad shortly after my mum passed away to help with rent/bills and my dad apparently cant cook my dad not a very nice person when drunk, and started a few arguements with my sister, and kept telling her to remmeber whose house it was.
After last arguement My sister and her 3 dc's moved in with me, dh and our 6 dc's 6 weeks ago.
She went to the council and told them that she was homeless and sleeping on my living room floor, and that she had spilt up with her partner (he is a asshole too).
Last friday she signed for the keys for the house, in that time I told her that she could stay on here while she painted the bedrooms and laid carpet, her ds has asthma, and her little on is only 3 mths old. I thought that it would take a week to get the painting done, my brother said he would help to paint, and so would one of his friends.
In the last week, she has glossed door frames and radiators upstairs, the little bedroom is all paited. But she has stripped the wall paper in 2 bedrooms, the hallway/landing, living room, taken the tiles off in the kitchen and in the bathroom (because a few were cracked)
She never seems to have her dcs, I have had them loads of times over the 6 weeks that she has been with us. Yesterday I had her 3mth old from 8am and I phoned her at 2pm, to ask her if she could pick her dd2 up after she picks up her dd1 from creche at 2.30pm, as I had loads to do yesterday afternoon. She went into a strop, phoned me when she was down the road to have the baby in the car seat and ready to go as she was very busy and had things to do in her new house.
Her ds who is 9, wee's over the toilet floor, I told him that if he makes a mess please could he either clean it up or at least let one of us know so that we can clean it up. Sis decided to blame my ds (6yr old) who was still in bed. Today she has been out all day decorating and the toilet floor has been dry all day, until she came home and her ds went to the toilet, and now it is wet, although sis wont have it that it was her ds.
Its my dd1's birthday in a fortnight, and she has asked me for a sleepover, I told her that it will have to be after sis moves out, as there is no where for her friends to sleep. I mentioned to sis and told her dd1's plans for her birthday and sis said it was ok she would sleep out the night of the sleepover as there was no way she would have moved in by then.
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tots2ten · 04/06/2010 20:51
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