My dd (now 23m) was childminded by my SIL who is a childcare professional for about 12hrs a week while I was in work (SIL was paid the going rate for this) DD stopped going there about 4 months ago as I stopped working. I had no particular concerns while dd was there other than SIL not taking dd to mother and toddlers as specifically agreed at the start of the arrangment and on one occasion (as I have since discovered) lieing about taking her.
Whenever I picked dd up from SIL's in the past dd was a bit whingy but she gets like that towards the end of the day so I thought nothing of it at the time.
Now whenever we visit SIL my dd barely makes eyecontact with her and hardly talks at all while she is there (she talks nine to the dozen usually and is quite happy talking to other adults). She is also very clingy.
AIBU to be worried about what went on there or am I over reacting?
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victoriascrumptious · 29/05/2010 19:17
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