I rarely feel moved to post on AIBU, but in this instance I'm genuinely wondering if I AM being an unreasonable and horrible twunt.
Been with man for about eight years. In all the time we've lived together he's changed the bedding maybe three times (no joke) and isn't the world's tidiest person - long story short, I do most of the cleaning etc, and I've done all the (shoddy) DIY in the house.
Generally, I don't really mind, although sometimes I'll voice my dissatisfaction with his slobbiness. Blah blah.
Lately, we've been getting the house ready to put on the market, and bloke has been doing some painting, papering etc. Also, I work and he looks after the baby. He's suddenly come over all stroppy about how much house-work he does. Sometimes he'll make a big show about tidying up my stuff, going all thin-lipped and passive aggressive
(when I ask him what's wrong he says 'Nothing' while slamming things around the kitchen)
So anyway - am I being unreasonable to think he's being a drama queen? Should I have it out with him, or just laugh it off? I'll probably just laugh it off and bring it up when we're both drunk but he has a very selective memory these days about the division of labour over the last eight years, which is irking me...
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McSnail · 17/05/2010 10:20
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