Been together along time, he has never got round to marrying me, we have been engaged nearly 5 years but tbh I dont want to marry him anymore.
He works all the time 8am till 8pm which is great he provides for us, which I love tbh,but i may as well be a single parent.
When he is home I hate it, he takes over the tv,lays in to midday,the kids play up,I feel like giving up as I have no structure to our dc routine,he never helps with the kids, I feel he is very selfish.
Im no longer attracted to him as the thought of sleeping together repulses me, he just doe not care about the way he looks and Im not attracted to him but dont know how to tell him.
I try and plan babysitters but he just wants to go to the local,he never comes up with any ideas and if I ask him what he would like to do? he just says I dont mind?.
The other day I was poorly had an upset tummy but still went out, had to come home in the end as I was sick and felt unwell, he just accused me of being drunk, when everyone knew I was generally ill. he also invited everyone back I shouted and said he was out of order and went to bed,hence they did not come back.
I have started to plan a few nights out with my girl mates, he goes out twice a week,which I never do but I cant spend my life being with a miserable fart.
I deserve a life, I care for our children and rarely get a break,cant even get a job as he works 8am till 8pm so would have no childcare, I work one day a week, I love our ds dearly but im not happy and feel unloved and unappreciated, aibu.
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cleanandcomfort · 04/05/2010 12:14
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