Ok, I know I'm going to sound like a PFB mum (which in a way I am, but not as bad as some I know!)
I take DD (almost 1) to a couple of groups a week, she enjoys them and its a chance to chat with other mums.
But there is one other mum at the groups who turns up every time with her DD (close in age I think) who is ALWAYS ill. I don't just mean colds, in the past few weeks it has been norovirus, chickenpox, RSV, chest infection, flu, d&v (x3 seperate weeks). This week she had d&v, and was on antibiotics for something, it was obvious that she was very temperature-y. She does stil seem quite bright, and joins in the play.
I know the mum, and have asked(politely) on a few occasions if she is well enough to be there, I usually get replies like "its fine she is on Dyoralite", or "its ok cos she doesn't have any chickenpox on her face so you can't tell".
I've offered her my help when her DD is ill, such as picking shopping up for her, or just being a listening ear. And I do 100% sympathise with her as it must be horrible for her to see her baby poorly all the time. She is a good mum and does take good care of her DD, just seems to be a run of bad luck!
I may be being overprotective of DD (and the other babies there, some of whom are only a matter of weeks old), DD has picked up an upper chest infection in the last few weeks, which she passed on to me, causing me to miss 2 days of my 2.5day a week job, which I've only just gone back to after mat leave. I'm anxious about taking her to the group as I don't know what she will bring home next, I know babies and children always catch things from each other and thats not a bad thing, but it seems a pretty safe bet that she will pick things up when she is in such close contact with a poorly baby so often.
For the record, its a condition of the group that infectious babies are kept away to prevent infection spread, but the group leader seems at best oblivious.
What would you do?
Release the biscuits!!!
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to be thinking about stopping taking DD to these groups because of this other mum?
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NarabugHitWindscreen · 21/04/2010 09:04
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