First AIBU for me so go easy...
We've got one DS who is now 3. I had a bit of a shitty pregnancy and couldn't walk for the last 3 months due to SPD. We'd always talked about having two LOs but my pregnancy put me off, if I'm honest. I'd have no problems going through it again if I had no children but if I had to go through it again with a toddler/small child I'd struggle.
So about a year ago, DH and I agreed that we'd just have one and that was that. We sold our two bedroomed house and moved into a three bed so that we and DS would have a room each and so that we'd have a spare room for relatives/friends to visit. So we bought this house on the basis of having no more LOs. Escept now, I am feeling quite broody. I've felt like it for about four months and I've waited to see if it will pass but it doesn't seem to be.
I'm torn between bringing it up to DH because I made a real fuss about moving to the house that we did (I wanted it because it had bigger garden for DS and because it was off a busy road) and I feel that the decision about this house was rested on not needed another bedroom because no more babies were on the horizon, and not mentioning because I feel a little "made your bed so lie in it". I'm also worried that if I don't broach the subject, I might really regret it in ten years time. I don't want DH to feel that I deceived him somehow, which is a bit how I feel but I'm honestly not feeling like this deliberately [ confused]
Sorry for such a long post. Just wondered what the MN jury might have to say
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AIBU?
to be feeling a bit broody after DH and I agreed no more babies?
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cupcakesandbunting · 14/04/2010 15:20
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