I used to live within walking distance of work. Last summer I left my H and took DD to live in a different town, although I still work in the old place. H still lives in the old house. It takes me 90 mins each way to get to work, incl. nursery drop-off. Should I move closer to work when my lease is up in June?
Considerations:
- I originally moved away because the split was acrimonious and I was afraid H would grab DD and refuse to hand her back. We have court orders in place so this is no longer a risk, but I still don't want to bump into him all the time.
- Rent would be the same, but I'd save £150 per month in commuting costs.
- I don't mind the commuting so much. We go by bus and train and I read stories to DD or we talk or look out of the window.
- I love my new town and my new flat.
- I hate the hassle of moving.
I want to stay where I am, but AIBU to spend such a big chunk of every day commuting?