I had my DD in December and due to a combination of the appalling weather over Christmas and the new year and also my general reticence, i have not joined many mum and baby groups. However, I do meet up every couple of weeks with friends from NCT and fairly regularly see other friends/family. I have a friend who is almost full term with her first pregnancy. I count her as a good friend, but she is quite highly strung and opinionated and i think sometimes speaks without thinking. She has joined an antenatal exercise group and keeps telling me how fab her group is and that they are always meeting up for coffee and cake and lunch etc that basically that?s what I should be doing and that i should be getting myself out and about. I feel like telling her, that they might be doing that now, but that it?s not so easy once your LOs come along. I just want to spend time with my little girl before i go back to work and even though i am booked on to start a couple of activities with her in a few weeks, and don?t feel the need to be trailing her all about town every day. I just think, in the same way that i didn?t have any idea before DD came along, she doesn?t really appreciate what it?s like to have a newborn baby. I don?t think I have had PND, but both DH and have found having a newborn really hard, even though DD is really good for us, sleeps through and is really such a gorgeous happy little girl. Am i just being a miserable cow?!
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MintHumbug ·
12/04/2010 23:13
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