..that if someone is having issues with a family member (usually parents) that they quite often get slammed for it, because other posters come in and say " well at least you have a Mum/Dad/whoever, so just be grateful" ?
I understand that people have lost loved ones, I really do. I understand that you would miss them. A lot.
BUT this doesnt mean that everyone else whose mum/dad/whatever is still here has/had as good a relationship with their family member as you did. And isnt it a bit unfair to slam them for having a whinge/vent or not having as good as relationship just because you miss your loved one?
Some people have genuine issues with these family members, some have genuinely crap upbringings, some have different ideas of privacy and acceptable-ness and the boundaries that people set are not going to be the same as you would set for your family. Because we are all different.
So yes, you may THINK well I miss mum/dad/whoever, but that doesnt mean that everyone else should put up with crap from their family because they are still around.
Or am I wrong and it is ok to tell people to put up with crap from family members because they are alive and 'family'?
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thisisnotwhoyouthink · 12/04/2010 13:15
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