Would you do anything about this?
A few weeks ago, I mentioned to MIL when discussing possible birthday presents for DS (5) that he is keen on Transformer toys, although he doesn't realise there is a film and I don't want to him to.
Last week, DH dropped off the children to spend some time with MIL and she said she had recorded the Transformers film off sky (? can you record off Sky? we don't have it) and what did he think about DS watching it? DH said NO, its a 12, its far too old for him.
When the DCs got home, they told me they had both been watching Transformers. BOTH of them - age almost 5 and 3!! Unusually MIL didn't come to drop them off, just FIL, and he didn't come in or anything. Upon questioning DCs are adament it was a film not a cartoon.
DS had two nightmares that night and I was up and down with the pair of them waking each other up like a relay team, for 3 hours.
I was a bit hacked off with MIL but thought she must have forgotten our conversation a few weeks back. I didn't find out until the next day about the explicit NO from DH.
I told her and FIL about the nightmares and they looked very sheepish. FIL was a bit 'told you so' towards MIL.
Whats done is done, DH reckons no point mentioning it further. PILs are brilliantly generous and look after DCs one day a week. I am ok with them not doing everything 'my way', they have tons of sweets, McDonalds and presents every week, but I am really disappointed about this. It seems to (a) lack their usual common sense and (b) stick two fingers up at what DH and I set down as rules.
I don't suppose there is a lot I can do. I guess I just want to moan. sorry!
(Have name changed so if MIL happened to see this she won't know my usual name.)
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MIL, DC and the film 'Transformers'
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MumbotInDisguise · 24/01/2010 21:04
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