Bloody hell, even as I write this I can feel the flames.
DP is a lovely bloke, great with me and the kids, works very hard etc etc. But he does have a tendency to want his old life back, and this weekend is a prime example.
On Friday we both went out to a charity night for friends of mine. My parents were babysitting, and I promised them we'd be back around 11pm-12am. All fine.
It got to 11pm, and I went to find DP to say we'd have to go. When I found him he was with a bunch of his childless friends, who proceeded to take the piss out of him (and me) for going early. So he told me that he was staying out and I should go back alone. I was a bit pissed off, but let it go because he deserves a night off every now and again.
He rolled in, absolutely plastered, at 6am and woke us all up, after a crappy night when I'd been up twice with DD2 anyway (so I was not amused). We had a appointment to see a flat at 11.30, so I tried to wake him up at 10.30am. It took until 11am to get his arse out of bed, then he stomped about blaming me for making him rush about. He was in a foul mood all day, and kept snapping at me and the kids. In the end I'd had enough, and yelled at him that if he couldn't handle his drink and not take it out on the kids the next day then he'd better not go out on the lash again. He did apologise, and told me I could have a lie-in this morning.
So, after another bad night with DD2 I was pleased that DP got up with them both. However, only 45 minutes later he comes in with DD2 crying, shoves her into my arms and tells me it's my turn as he has to get ready for football. I asked what he had done (given her and DD1 breakfast, changed nappies etc). It tutned out he had done nothing - both kids hungry, still in full nappies and pyjamas and DP just picks up footy bag and heads out.
I don't mind him going out and letting his hair down, but the weekends are the only time he sees the kids (he works late nearly every day) so AIBU to want a bit of help from him on the only days I have him around to help?
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to think DP has been just a little bit useless this weekend?
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bluesheep · 24/01/2010 09:58
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