Grrrrrrrrrrrr - O.K. I know I'm hormonal as 19 weeks pregnant but...
Just dropped my little girl 17months at nursery this morning. New nursery as we moved at start of Nov, so she has settled in now, no tears in the morning, itching to get her jacket off before the door has closed - all positive. She goes 2 days a week. Previous biting incident on her face, and her arm, but all seem to be sorted now.
Anyway she had her swine flu jab on Mon evening, she's been a bit clingy from it, and generally not herself, but all in all you'd have barely noticed. Dropped her off this morning and she was upset, nothing to bad but tears. The team leader was there who she likes, and she went into her arms. I could see behind her that there was one other little girl, and one other staff member I havn't seen before sitting at the activity desk on the little kiddie seats.
So left, feeling bad, thought we were over crying stage, blah blah. Carpark is at the back of the cottage, so after about 20 seconds I pass the back windows and can see in her room. I could hear her as I came up the side of the path, she was BAWLING, I peeked in, and she was standing totally by her self, isolated from other little girl, bascially plonked down exactly where I left her in team leader arms. She was all red, upset, no team leader in sight, and other staff member still wedged in kiddie seat a bit away from her, not even paying attention to the other little girl. She then caught me out the corner of her eye - realised who I was, and made a crappy attempt to remove herself from the seat to go to her.
So I'm sitting back in the car, howling, thinking I'm a crappy crappy mum for leaving her there. I feel guilty I'm leaving her somewhere that could possibly treat her like that.
So came home, husband then all worried becasue I'm crying - so he says he speak to them. Cringe - do not want that to happen - he's not the most diplomatic.
I know deep down that she is gueniunly happy there, and she has come on leaps and bounds since attending her two days, but I really really want to chinese burn that horror woman who didn't go and give my upset litle chick a cuddle !!!!!!
Will I say somehting when I pick her up ? ' She's usually very good at drop off time, so if she does cry, can you just make sure she's back to normal before leaving her, I think she and I would prefer it'
Anyway long rant over. Sorry, had to let it out.
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BBW · 20/01/2010 10:18
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