to think mumsnet is not the same now that

[2shoes]

kerrymum has disappeared

[MaHumbug]

I saw her yesterday!

[StealthPolarBear]

she was on yesterday, surely?

[TheInvisibleManDidIt]

She's not gone altogether though has she? Just going through a bit of hard time just now.

[daftpunk]

2shoes....I was talking to her last week.

[GypsyMoth]

How can one posters absence make such a difference? Odd!

[RoseBlossoms]

YABU

This is why mn sucks sometimes because of posters licking each others arses.

Get a grip

[2shoes]

cos she is my mate, and I miss her!! easy really lol

[GypsyMoth]

Well if she's your mate surely you see her regularly in rl?

[Alambil]

she's on fb, 2shoes.... think she's taking a bit of time out due to RL

[NomDePlume]

she's only been gone a day or 2, no ?

[stoppinattwo]

Roseblossoms......your post stinks of shoite attitude, you sure you havent been licking someone arse??

Tiffany...why should she see her in RL to be a mate??

[violethill]

I agree with Rose - what's with all this fawning over people who disappear/reappear/name change/have a break?

Maybe they're busy in that other life, y'know, the Real one!

[stoppinattwo]

Was she fawning????.........really, I think not, Is it an arse kissing type act to indicate that you think a place has changed because someone is not there.

Watch out you could be accused of arse kissing for agreeing with Rose!!!

[IloveNickClegg]

God , I hate these types of threads ... get a grip AND A LIFE !

People come , people go - MN is constantly changing.

I hate the arse licking that sometimes goes on ' Who's your favourite poster / Which poster makes you laugh ? /Who has the funniest name ? blah blah blah !

[DollyMessiter]

They usually all come back in the end.

[piratecat]

if she is your mate, then maybe you could cat/email her. she is obv having a hard time, but I htought i saw her post only about 2 days ago?

[ObsidianBlackbirdMcNight]

YABU to start a thread saying how much you miss someone. If she's left MN she won't see it will she? Why not just text/FB her to say you miss her?

And YABU to think MN isn't the same - with all due respect to kerrymum she's just one of the many hundreds of posters on MN so her absense really doesn't affect most people.

[stoppinattwo]

Ironic...your name is Ilovenickclegg....

Move on and get a life yourself, you know nothing of 2shoes.......at what point is she arse licking?

NEXT!!...............

[GypsyMoth]

lol at this.....

a 'mate' in my world is someone you know ,er,in the real world....wouldn't call someone i occasionally converse here on mn with or perhaps on fb ,as a 'mate'

[violethill]

Exactly kat2907

If it's someone you actually know and like, you won't be relying on MN to communicate with them - you'll be FB or texting.

I always think these threads are very suspect - either the person concerned has flounced and then name changes and starts a thread as a way back in without losing face, or they get someone else to do it.

Or if, as is most likely the case, they've just disappeared for a bit to get on with Real Life, then it's pretty irritating to have people fretting over where they've gone.

If they wanna come back - they'll come back!

[LynetteScavo]

Add message | Report | Contact poster By ILoveTIFFANY Sat 16-Jan-10 21:39:56
"How can one posters absence make such a difference? Odd!"

You obviously never "met" Cod.

Kerrymum did post recently. I had been wondering where she was (and missing her!)

[E45]

Kerry Mumbles was on here nominating her Halloween stories for MN legendary status the other day. Last I heard she was getting married so what has changed. ??

[stoppinattwo]

Tiffany.......your world....exactly, no necessarily someone elses.

violet, you can summise all you want, just keep it to yourself.........bitchin and bad vibe is really unhealthy, if you have nothing good to say then your far better keeping your YAP shut

[violethill]

stoppin, you're a charmer ain't ya

It's public forum... people come and go.... waste of a good thread to start gushing about things not being the same cos of one person.

MN is bigger than all of us ya know!

[stoppinattwo]

exactly....so lets be positive instead of slating good people, 2shoes is a good person and Im not even anywhere near her arse,.....it stinks

I dont go for charm awards btw...i just say it how it is