DP rarely goes out anymore since birth of DS. I do encourage him to go out more often as i think its important to have social time with friends. So yesterday he made arrangements to go for a beer with his brother and 2 friends.
i dropped him off at the pub at 4pm and made arrangements to invite a neighbours round for a wee drink with me so i wouldn't be alone on sat night. Neighbour went home at 12am and i'd heard from DP once thru the evening to say he'd gone back to his brothers to continue drinking (this is fairly typical). I asked him (jokingly) if he was planning on coming home tonight and he answered 'of course' - explanation later on why i asked.
So i went to bed myself and texted him to say goodnight and to say that i would get up with DS in morning (we take turns at weekend getting up and it would have been his turn today). I waited all night on him coming home (you know the way you can't settle yourself propertly until they are home and you can put all the locks on the front door).
He didn't come home until breakfast this morning. Now he wasn't pissed, in fact it looked like he had a few hours sleep. I was livid:
Dp: morning
Me: morning? what happened to coming home last night
DP: sure i was at brother's house, we were drinking all night
Me: But you said you'd be home
Dp: and what?
Me: and what?!! You think i'm sitting up all night waiting on you coming home and then get up in the morning with DS when you roll home at breakfast time with plans to lie and sleep all day. Don't think so.
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So ladies, was i BU? Or is it that he was BU not coming home in the first instance, or not even being curteous enough to call me and say "hey, its late i'm gonna crash here and come down in the morning".
Background: it costs £5 to get to our house from his borthers in a taxi. DP has a history of doing this kind of thing when he goes out (i.e. going to the brothers and not coming home). He made quite a habit of going up there when i was pregnant and even did it the week DS was due.
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to be annoyed that DP didn't come home until this morning
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