Feeling like a bad mum so here goes.....
I work all week until the kids finish school and then spend most afternoons ferrying them to and from their many activities and sorting out their dinners. Housework kind of gets fitted in amongst the other chores.
DH works shifts and the weekends he is on he is expected to put in 8 hours daily PLUS cover the night-time on-call. Nights are always busy so most working weekends he is either catching up on sleep or going to work.
I hate these weekends with a passion. I feel we should be using them for "quality time" but I always end up wondering what to do with the kids, wishing they would stop bugging me and craving some time to myself.
Of course, the kids get bored. Their friends aren't usually free as they are off having "family time" and money is a bit tight so I struggle with thinking of things to do that we could all enjoy.
There's only so many DVDs we can watch, walks we can take....
Plus, where do I get to relax?
To be honest, the weekends where DH isn't working aren't always much better as they usually come at the end of a ten-day stint with call-outs and he usually is knackered and catches every bug going because his immunity is compromised by the exhaustion and inhospitable hours.
I'm fed up of watching yet another "wasted" weekend go by.......
[sigh]
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To sometimes bloody bloody HATE weekends???
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TheTetherEndsHere · 09/01/2010 09:49
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cat64 ·
09/01/2010 16:20
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