HI all
Ive just started back work since being on maternity leave for 9 months. I dont hate my job, its ok but im so tired all the time and i hate leaving my ds with the childminder (no reflection on her - she is lovely)
The only way we could afford for me to give up work is to sell the house and my car and rent somewhere cheaper. My dh is against the idea because of our security when we retire and also the area where we would have to rent which i know in my head are valid reasons. He says it will get easier for me once im used to it, which is easy for him to say as when he gets in from work he just plonks himself on the settee (a whole other thread) and his idea of helping is to occasionally make me a cup of tea and put the dishes away.
Argh im so stressed about it and im getting more resentful of him with the lack of help, btw if i do ask for help of him, he'll do it but with an attitude, the only way to describe it is like asking a stroppy teenager to clean his room. Am i mad to want sell the house so i dont have to work? is it me that is being selfish by not thinking of our future? honest replies please i can take it.
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worldgonemad72 · 08/01/2010 15:34
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justaboutandhernewbaby ·
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