I can comfortably say me and dp wouldn't be together if it wasn't for the children.
There has been many a situation, nothing serious before anyone sayes we should split, where had i not got them tying me to him id have considered leaving him,
despite being head over heels in love with him,
and also i can imagine the feud that was between me and his family tested him severely. (thats all over now and im close to my ils)
we know had it not been for the dcs we wouldn't have fought so hard.
I am not saying this as a negative thing, we are very happy, just got engaged and are buying our first home, we move from renting in 6weeks, things couldnt be better, but im just saying had it not been for ds and dd wed have probably just thought fuck it, and left. And wouldnt have such a lovely relationship and happy family now.
SO AIBU?
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to think that 'if it wasnt for the dcs we wouldnt be together' isnt That harsh, or untrue in some cases?
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