hi there, i have a sister who's a little bit older than me who seems to copy everything i do, and I'm getting so tired of it I'm considering just not seeing her anymore.
(sorry this is really long)
It all started when I fell pregnant with my first, i told family at 4 months and within a month she was pregnant too. we both had the baby's and she insisted on comparing then all the time, if I did baby yoga she did etc. she seemed to follow me with every desision i made regarding, BF, weaning, discipline etc.
when my little one was 8ish months i told everyone we were trying again, within a month or so i was pregnant, so was she (accident apparently),
I put it all down to coincidence until DD2 was born, hers within 2 weeks, since then I brought a new car she brought exactly the same make/model/year a few weeks later, she brought the same baby sling as me, toddler reins, pushchair (its quite a uncommon one and I was the only one in town with it) she uses the same clothing company as me, including buying the same outfits for the little ones after i've brought them, she adds all my friends on facebook, uses my little sayings on there and in person. aargh! just writing about it is getting me annoyed! people have started noticing and commenting on it.
now i'm considering baby number 3 and am thinking about breaking contact with her for a while to let her find her own feet/personality/parenting style and so she won't know I'm trying.
Is this mean or am i justified in this?
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stopcopyingme · 02/01/2010 20:15
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