My children's father has a girlfriend who took an instant dislike to me as soon as she got with him. I can only assume jealously and insecurity as I've done nothing to her whatsoever.
Anyway, according to my son she slags me off everytime they're there. Comments on the clothes I buy them, what I spend my money on and generally the way I live my life.
For christmas, my son (11) got his first mobile phone. He doesn't have many contacts on it yet as they've obviously not been back to school since christmas so I send him the odd text just to give him an excuse to play around with it.
My texts are usually along the lines of "hi poo-face" or "guess what, I'm eating cheese and onion crisps ... mmmmm :-P" etc!!!
So on boxing day, he was at his dads and it was the first time he'd taken the phone out of this house. I text him that night with "have you lost your phone yet? :-P"
ANYWAY, this apparantly caused the girlfriend to go into a raging hissy fit and she barked at him "DO NOT TEXT 'HER' HERE!!" and she then ordered his dad to check the text messages to see what I'd been saying!!
DS is due to go there today and he's just said to me "might be best if you don't text me while I'm there, Andrea says I'm not allowed to text you back and she gets really cross when you send me stuff"
IMO if I want to text my own bloody son, I will do!! And I think its shocking that he's not allowed to text me back! if I was sending stuff like "bet your dad is being an arsehole eh?" I could understand it!
AIBU for thinking she's a nutcase?
AIBU for texting him anyway? despite the "ban"?
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WomanFlu · 02/01/2010 10:45
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