in a nutshell
I am white with white children, friend of several years is black with black children.
I was looking after friends DS who is under 5 at her house. Her elderly mother lives with her as she is poorly and not well enough to look after children - she was there with me.
Her DS was attention seeking in a cute way, kept pretending to fall over and bump his head to get me to fuss him. When he did it I would call him a little monkey, make monkey noises and encourage him to make monkey noises back to me.
In hindsight I do realise that racists will call black people monkeys as an insult.
But I believe in evolution and therefore believe that we all descend from monkeys. Not only that, I do the whole "you little monkey" thing with my own children.
My friend has been really off with me since as I apparently upset her mum (wasnt aware of it at the time) and her mum actually called me a racist!!
Am I being unreasonable to think the whole thing is just ridiculous or was I somehow out of order?
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UpsyOne · 26/12/2009 20:52
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