Dh works in a very male environment, about 10 of them work in a group on a daily basis.
Anyway, they were talking about the weekend just gone & dh said he had taken the kids to see a Santa at the local shopping centre as I was having a day out with my sisters & friends as a treat for another friend.
They asked what we had got up to etc... and dh said actually, they all went pole dancing!
So one man (who isn't married, has never to any of their knowledge ever had a girlfriend) said to dh "Is your wife not quite big to be up to stuff like that?"
Dh told him no, I was actually just 4ft 10" (deliberately misunderstanding him) until he kept saying, No, I mean heavy, fat?
Dh said no, she's a size 12 - that's not fat!
Well, dh repeated the conversation to me at home this evening, as he was asking me if I had ever met this man, I said no, don't know him, then he told me what he said, adding that he thought he may have met my work colleague & got us confused.
But I burst into tears - my weight has always been n issue for me - I have lost almost 2.5stone since January last year & had finally built up some confidence, wearing soze 12 jeans for the first time in years etc...
I feel bad for Dh who is gutted he ever said anything to me in the first place, I feel sorry for myself too, but even more determined to lose this last stone.
I have been so looking forward to Christmas & I know I am hyper sensitive & my period is due so I more than likely am being a little bit unreasonable....but I really want to kick this man in the nuts.
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to have cried all evening over this stupid comment?
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ConnieComplaint · 16/12/2009 20:59
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