My 12 yo DD has been bullied a great deal in school, which is only now starting to be addressed. As a result she has refused to attend on occasion and has lashed out, verbally and/or physically, for which she has been punished. Here I have supported the school whilst expressing deep dissatisfaction regarding their lack of action on the bullying.
Yesterday DD caused an injury to a lad and as a result received a day's inhouse exclusion - put in the school's "inclusion" or "isolation" room under strict supervision and away from her peers.
BUT... the injury was an accident, caused by DD stupidly high-kicking whilst playing about with her friends. The lad concerned is a good friend and said so, other children who saw what happened said so, the staff have accepted that it was an accident. I have no problem with DD being punished for her dangerous behaviour, it was a bloody silly thing to do, but AIBU to think that putting her in the isolation room for the day, with the subsequent requirement of being on report (where if she forgets to get the report card completed and signed every lesson and by me in the evening she will get a detention), is a bit draconian?
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Vallhala · 16/12/2009 14:02
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