I've been with my DH for 13 years. He has a sister who I get on with well. My MIL is absolutely lovely, but the same can't be said of my FIL.
It's my MIL's birthday on Saturday. A while ago, me and my SIL thought it would be a nice idea to go out somewhere for lunch. My MIL doesn't drive and there's limited public transport where they live, so basically, she can't go out anywhere unless my FIL takes her, which he doesn't. My MIL mentioned a nice restaurant where they live, but we didn't know the name of it. MIL & FIL got back from 2 weeks in Barbados at the weekend, so my SIL called her dad to find out the name of the restaurant and explain what we intended to do. He told her that it wouldn't be appropriate to go to that restaurant in the winter (!?) and refused to consider anywhere else. Instead, he announced he would cook for everyone at their house.
Not what we'd wanted, but, fine. So we decided lunch would be best as between us we have 3 under 4's. My SIL rang her dad last night to confirm the arrangements, and he was being funny about it. Apparantly, after they spoke, he started on my MIL telling her she was selfish to want to see everyone on her birthday, especially as they've just had a holiday!! He told her that when he was working, he had to go to work on his birthday (so what - don't we all? and just because she was a SAHM, does he think she didn't have to 'work' on her birthday?!!). Anyway, it all escalated into a big row. My MIL was understandably upset and has decided she just wants to forget about her birthday this year.
I'm livid. He is such a selfish tw@t, to have the front to accuse her of being selfish, I can't believe it.
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maxpower · 02/12/2009 12:54
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