to think that trying to flirt on fb with someone when you're married is not on?

[spicemonster]

I am single. I had uploaded a new pic of me onto fb and a lot of my friends said it was really nice so I said it was a new one in the hope of having some internet dating success. A few days later, a man I know (who I had a brief fling with many moons ago) started a chat with me. Fine I thought, haven't seen you in ages. Then when I asked how he was, he said he was bored and started asking how my dating was going, complimenting me on my photo, asking when I was around etc.

Is it me or is that not at all cool when you're married? (I know his wife too)

I told him I had to go and cut the chat short.

[attley]

Def not, especially as you know his wife too! I chat to a couple of ex's on facebook but no flirting or arrangements to visit each other and my husband knows. If he's a good friend you could agree to meet as and say you would love to see his wife again!

[Scorps]

Are you sure it was meant in 'that' way, and not just chit-chat?

YANBU if he was being like 'that'. Hate FB.

[spicemonster]

I don't know scorps. I did wonder if I'd totally got the wrong end of the stick but he was being very complimentary. And it just made me feel a bit uncomfortable.