what is it with people? I would literally, well, almost literally, rather die of shame than accept a present from someone, no matter how small, and not say thank you.
I've lost count of the number of parties DS (4) goes to now, leaves a present on the table and we never hear from the child/parents again - not even a 'thanks' shouted across the playground, which would be better than nothing.
DS is going to a party next week and I remember clearly the little boys parents last year didn't bother to send a thank you note for the (quite nice, I thought) present we bought for their son at last year's birthday party. I'm quite tempted to just not bother this year, but then.. you can't go to a party empty handed can you?
Quite apart from the manners issue, I worry that the present never reached them if I don't receive a thank you, and then I worry that they'll think I was mean to not buy them anything!
Am I being horribly old fashioned here?!
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to not want to buy presents for children whose parents can't be arsed to say thank you last year?
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Nanga · 14/11/2009 20:55
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