Not really a AIBU but need advice on how to deal with this.
We live in a very "white" area and there is only one little girl in DS2s class who is from a Jamaican family.
It would seem (so said the teacher this morning) that yesterday this little girl ask DS2 to pass her a black pencil and DS2 said "you already have a black pencil" at which point the little girl burst in to tears and said DS2 was calling her black!!!!!!
Now the kids are 9 years old, the teacher has said he was party to this and ds2 did not call her black he said "you already have a black pencil" but the school have to deal with the girl being upset... and made a complaint!!
Um I think I may be missing the point but what exactly has DS2 done wrong here?
Despite living in a predominantly white area now I grew up in Brent and Wembley have lots of friends of all races that my children know , do I tell DS2 never to use the word "black" do I ask to speak to the school as I do not think DS2 should be in trouble for this.
I did make sure the teacher had got it right and DS2 had not said anything other then "you have a black pencil".
What do I say to DS2 when I get him from school? How do I address this...
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KimiTheThreadSlayingRocket · 05/11/2009 11:07
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